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Growing up with a narcissistic mother & subsequent abuse (Page 2)
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I'm sorry you went through that. And I'm sorry for some of the responses on here you got also. Hopefully 2019 be a good year for us all.🌼
Lmao... you insecure or something, everyone has a “real” life and everyone deals with “real life things.” I don't know why you feel the need to mention that
I'm not insecure by mentioning that and I fail to see why out of everything I wrote, that's all you noticed. I figured you to be one of the more intellectual, thoughtful types on this site.
Well, it's G@G, I guess I shouldn't expect much.
Ooo he brought some attitude
@Thotkiana
It’s the first day of the year!
Dayum straight lmfao
Well, at least the underage girls are impressed.
No, actually. He was my fiance and I broke up with him a while ago.
@ChronicThinker
I don’t think it was entirely one sided. I think he’s glad he’s separated from you. At least he doesn’t have to hear constant “my mommy didn’t love me” or “my mama didn’t care about my feelings.” It’s clear that the residual effects of your mommy not caring about you, is affecting you to this day.
Yes, it does. You're not wrong, it does impact me today. Not nearly the way it did.
I see why you call yourself police lives matter now. You have this fetish with above-the-law, sadistic power trips. I thought at first it was because you may have seen BLM as a typical hate group but now its obvious that its because you have a little dick and you need to feel like a big man by acting like the one in charge.
You still have that chip on your shoulder?
Grow up, you'd be complaining about much less, for hours even.
Dude! If you have nothing good to say, then STFU. The insensitive one is you. What’s your problem man? If you got problems spell it out, don’t go raining on someone else’s parade! Don’t you think there is enough shitty attitudes in this world?
A name like ThotKiana is the only person that sits on the fence here. Go back to Tinder. Change your name to LivesMatter and you might be more compassionate. Until you’ve known someone irl with controlling parents, just save yourself the embarrassment and keep quiet.
@Cin88
Did you read anything I just wrote? Go back and reread what I said. Chronic doesn’t need anyone to hold her hand and tell her it’s going to be okay, I’m just telling how I see it, nothing more or less.
I hope you block people like this from your future posts because I don’t think anything good is going to come of it... it’s toxic.
Yeah I read your nonchalant/throw away posts. What are you still in high school?
No, not in high school. Again, if she wants to block me go ahead but all I was doing was being honest with the type of person I believe her to be and the post she wrote. To me, she doesn’t seem like a kind or nice person, more so rude, insensitive, etc. Could I be wrong? Yes, maybe so but to me, this is what I’ve noticed about Chronic. Maybe it’s something to do with recent events or maybe it was her mommy treating her bad. I don't know
What was so rude about her post. Did you read her post in full? It’s ok that she said that. She was sorry she took a long break, maybe she has friends on here. So? Perhaps you should re-read the entire post including your replies with a more vulnerable outlook and be a decent human being about bullying and abuse. Your posts are borderline bullying.
Worst feeling is for people to kick you when you’re already down - just if you’d like a physical analogy so that you can understand it... I hope you see it this way. The world doesn’t need an extra bully. Honesty sometimes isn’t always the best policy.
@Cin88
No, not just this post but who she is as a person. I’ve seen many of her posts throughout her time here, and she doesn’t strike me as a “good” person at all.
You don’t think someone can change through thinking about their lives and nurturing positivity and peace?
Regardless of her previous posts, perhaps this one was a more decent one and you should probably encourage that, whether you trust she is a “good” person or not. Freedom of speech.
If you’d like my complete honesty, your reply made you look like a total ass, out of context or explanation. Also insensitive to the many that can relate and hate themselves because they never got enough love or encouragement to love even themselves. Not everyone is so lucky.
I didn’t write it for everyone to get, mainly Chronic. So, if it seems out of context or explanation, it’s because it wasn’t meant for everyone. I was being honest with what I perceived and nothing else. Maybe you’re right and that I should’ve been nicer, but I wrote what I wrote and I meant it
If you put yourself in someone else’s shoes, would that help you feel more compassion? Everyone has insecurities. We mirror what we see in others. Your statement was not wrong, it was blatantly obvious but everyone stuffs up sometimes. I think the need to be perfect and make sure everyone else is pleased caused anxiety (of the future) and depression (of past F-ups). It’s becoming a bit of an epidemic. You don’t know depression until it tries to be your friend in a sense and cripple you from the inside out... I’m not kidding. Try to be gentle towards people.
Re: relationship judgement above. Why are you prying, judging and ridiculing about OP’s relationship? She is already sapped of energy dealing with a lot of emotional pain. Many people break up for many reasons. We are on our own personal journeys, with or without a partner, you are your own self. People push others away and self-sabotage happy and good things in their lives because they think they don’t deserve it. I’ve been with naggers, guys with high expectations and ones that feel the world has done them wrong yet they don’t deserve anything in life because they think there will be a price to pay. Life is really unfair to some, so much so that they keep themselves prisoner of their own minds. You are young, but maybe when you get older you will become aware of your own negative self talk when you are in solitude. Don’t project this onto others. Live and let live. Just do right in the world.
Wow you're still going?
Wow... I don't get why did you feel the need to insult her? She just poured her heart out in her Take. She did not attack you or something. She is already going through a really rough time. So, if you didn't have anything good to say, if you can't be empathetic then at least you shouldn't have posted. Should have ignored her post. You kicked her down when she is aleady really vulnerable, she is already down. I'm so shocked. I did not expect this from you. I always thought you were a very considerate person, that's why I respected you. There was no need to ridicule her and her relationship. If I were you, I would have apologized.
She’s an adult, doesn’t need a fucking shoulder to cry on. This is what’s so wrong with people nowadays, everyone is so sensitive. She’ll either get through it or die trying,, simple as that. I don’t like her as a person and I explained why, and just because she writes a sob story for all to hear doesn’t make me change what I wrote. To me, I don’t feel she’s a kind or good person and this post of hers doesn’t make me sympathize with her at all. We all have problems, tough shit. I already explained why I commented the way I did, just reread what I wrote. If you think I’m wrong, great for you, if you think I’m right, great for you too.
Well, you are not very pleasant person all the time. Still people expressed sympathized with you when your dog passed away. They were empathetic. Just because someone is an adult doesn't mean they shouldn't express their feelings. Imagine how would YOU feel if someone actually ridiculed you when you were already down?
You do not like her as a person, then you didn't have to post on her thread. Like I said, ignore her post instead of ridiculing her.
Mate, just because someone is an adult does not mean they don't deserve to get some basic empathy and support.
The attitude that one has to suck shit up because everyone has some issues is just utterly, utterly stupid and detrimental to any individual.
Also, she may be rude and insensitive sometimes, she'll even admit to that. But she's still human, and this is the wrong time to bring this up. I've never seen her bare her soul like this, and she's at her most vulnerable point. There is a better time to bring up whatever beef you have with her.
@tartaarsaus @ericclayton Agreed.
Does that sound like a good person to you? No, it doesn’t
Not everyone deserves the same level of sympathy Genie, not everyone deserves sympathy at all. I wasn’t writing what I wrote to be mean, but because she’s not a person I do not like and wanted to put to her straight and honest
The irony of this is that you dislike her for her arrogant attitude, when you carry yourself in similar manners when it comes to certain topics. This post being a shinning example.
Your username is literally a political statement, and you act as if carrying yourself like a moral compass unironically works in your favor. It does the opposite by your OWN standards.
So what I would suggest is finding your own humility instead of attempting to check the moral compass of others. Chronic is not the best person on this site, but I expect you would have a VALID criticism of her instead of cherry picking things to be rude to her about.
@SketchForger Thanks bud. You're a gem.
No, if it was anyone else I would feel differently but from what I know about Chronic and my interactions with her, she doesn’t seem to be a good person to me. If it was Genie23, I would not have responded the way I did for example, because her responses and personality on here doesn’t indicate to me that she’s a bad person. I never liked who Chronic was, intrinsically speaking, and seeing her “holier than thou” mentality when talking about people on here is not respectable to me. Even now, when I first responded look what she wrote... She looks down upon people on here, seems, seems shallow, and insensitive. I’ve talked to her before and she has a cut throat personality where career goes before anything, even if it means doing something that is morally questionable, all to get to the top.
Why do you keep deleting my posts?
Well, rules exist on GAG. Both of your two last posts obviously violated the rules, hence they have been removed. So if you don't want it to be removed, don't violate the rules.
TL;DR: don't break the rules
I haven't deleted anyone's posts. I didn't even know you could.
@ChronicThinker I did
@tartaarsaus Oh, I see.
@tartaarsaus
Have a fucking spine brother, I’m calling someone out on stalking another member on here and having the cops called on them. Don’t you think people here need to know something like that? Fuck the rules man, grow up
@ChronicThinker
I’m sorry about what I wrote, I was a little angry this week for obvious reasons and I decided to take it out on you. I understand that I could’ve answered more politely and better, but I didn’t. Just remove my posts and block me, I’ll understand. What I said was how I felt, but even then it wasn’t exactly governed by logic, I was angry and flustered from recent events. Again, I apologize for EVERYTHING I’ve said. I tried to hold onto what I said even when everyone was saying I was wrong because I’m stubborn. I’m wrong, and I’m sorry for what I said.
@PoliceLicesMatter
You're accusing someone of stalking with zero evidence of consequence, calling that person a 'motherfucker', 'coward' and 'creepy fucker'.
It should be obvious that it breaks the rule where it is perfectly clearly stated "We do not allow members to talk negatively of other GAGers in posts"
So no, don't fuck the rules.
I don't need to block you. If it somehow jerks your cock to mock my separation from my fiance and laugh at how I was mistreated and abused as a child, go ahead. I realize I can be a jerk, but I can at least say even I have lows I won't stoop to.
I'm a stronger person now as an adult and nothing you've said is any worse than what I've heard my entire life. It doesn't impact me anymore.
However, I appreciate you having the balls to apologize. I accept your apology and acknowledge the fact that I've been in a similar position as you and have lashed out unnecessarily. I still think people can learn and grow from things.
So, thanks. Good luck and sorry about your shitty week.
@ChronicThinker If you want this entire thread to be gone, you can just click on the 'I don't want to see this' on the hamburger menu at the original comment
@tartaarsaus No, I want the thread to stay. I think it shows an important perspective to how some people treat such topics as this, and everything everyone had to say here shows a lot of good as well. Besides, people ought to stand by what they say.
Alright. That makes sense
@tartaarsaus
So, you instead delete the posts without questioning me about what I wrote? If you want, I can PM you. Do you want me to do that?
@tartaarsaus
Follow me so I can message you
I think this discussion has brought out a lot of truths which is important. PLM has apologised and it appears Chronic has accepted his apology. We can agree to disagree on certain matters/behaviours of people and still be “friends”. We don’t have to like everything about a person, in fact I don’t think there is such a thing. There’s toxic behaviours that hold you back. Know the difference.
It’s strange how people perceive things different from given history. It is important to come to an understanding.
We have reminded Chronic that she can block and delete if she deems something to be toxic. Sometimes it’s good to give things a bit of time to settle. Your intuition is important. Someone’s ability to turn things around is the miracle of life.
I’m also sorry that PLM had a bad week. I also had anger issues in my 20s sometimes it still flares up. I’ve gotten angry in public before and now I feel it’s embarrassing to let that out in public, you sound mentally unstable. People get scared of you and then when you try to be nice, they think you have a split personality. It’s good to try to be balanced with all the stuff in your mind. People don’t know what goes on under the hood. So that’s my motivation to deal with that anger alone or with a friend who can give perspective.
I think judgements are thrown in hopes to teach someone a lesson, but nobody will ever learn unless they are ready to listen.
I agree
Wow, zombie thread.
People still give a shit about this?
I don't, and I'm genuinly curious as to why Joker randomly commented on something from 5 months ago.
This is an important thread
The guy that posted this literally apologized and quit the site after lol. No one cares anymore.
I'm going to cry @ChronicThinker
I agree.
@CarpetDenim I'm going to cry
Wow love me some good vintage threads
@Joker_ It’s okay, you may cry.
@CarpetDenim I'm crying
@EmbraceThePain
@embracethepain embrace the pain
@Vigors I'm going to cry
@joker_ it's okay, you may cry
@Vigors Thank you
@joker_ you're cum welcome
Strange, the situation you face is very common in many families i know.
Why’d you leave your fiancé
I don't intend to talk about it online.
Oh okay. I’m sorry
It's alright.
I went through this and have a parent like this.
It damaged me beyond anything I could have described
😢😢
Narcissism is just sad
I'm glad to hear you're on the right path. Tc
holds you
Thanks, pal.
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