The type of female to look for

[IcedLemonade]

About fifty percent of people who have never been married say they want to be married. So I thought I'd throw my two cents in on what a suitable female would be like.

• She must have never had a reliance on her sexuality for food, money, attention, or entertainment.
• She must live a normal, happy life having no psychological issues.
• She must take pride in how she appears.
• She must have a logical mindset and not want revenge for percieved slights.
• She must have had demonstrated transcendence of primitive thought processes i.e. she doesn't live to survive, she lives to thrive.

A reliance on her sexuality to afford necessities indicates laziness. This kind of woman isn't adapted to a family life. She'll need constant spa days, vacations, gifts and attention to feel validated.

Normal, happy women are the only women truly compassionate. All other women feel some kind of spite for the world. The world that isn't giving them what they feel entitled to.

She should feel like she's capable of fitting in and gaining popularity by caring for how she appears. That includes her behavior, looks, and speech. A lack of care for these three things indicates how serious she is about life.

When she has her life together she should be comfortable with having a logical mindset. There's no need for her to emotionalize her life, because she's the master of it. Only babies truly need to cry.

By being logical she will be able to play a part in an environment that centers around peace and quiet. Making noise is for the birds. This is the only type of female you can build with.

[Exterminatore]

There are 2 things I disagree with. You listed she must not use her sexuality for attention. Appearing attractive is one of the primary ways women draw men to themselves. Granted there is a huge difference between looking attractive and looking like a whore but you get the point. The Marian the librarian look is probably not going to attract many men.


You also mentioned she must be logical. Women are way more emotional than men. Women are certainly capable of logical thought but it’s not their modus operandi. They tend to reason emotionally and think relationally. They are process oriented instead of task oriented. For this reason you won’t find one that’s as logical as much of the time as you’d probably like.


There are more traits I’d add to your list but this is too long already.

[IcedLemonade]

I used the word rely. And everyone is emotional, especially babies. The reason is that it's a signal of distress. There's no reason a modern feminist woman (i dont hate feminists) should be emotional.

[midnightmoon05]

Try not to be emotional when we bleed month and cramps and headaches.. and anything else that comes with that is out of our control… to not feel the pain or the emotions…
Let me know when you find that women…
By the way… do guy have sisters or if you seen your mom with any emotions?

[IcedLemonade]

@midnightmoon05 Periods shouldn't be that painful

[midnightmoon05]

I wish that’s true for all.
It’s not bad for my little sister…
Bad for me.
Oh… in case you want kids…. Get some info what women have to deal with child birth…

[Jamie05rhs]

"She doesn't live to survive; she lives to thrive."
I kinda disagree with this part. Because you're discounting the experiences of women who may be low-income. If survival is what she needs, and her mind is focused on that, then she's doing the right thing. She's doing what is appropriate for her personal situation. There is nothing wrong with that at all.

[IcedLemonade]

Very few poor women were raised right enough to be princesses. Say 1% of women are from high quality families. Even less poor women exist who are high quality even though there are armies of them

[Jamie05rhs]

@IcedLemonade I never said anything about her "quality."

[Azura_88]

Hypocrisy at it's best!
If you don't wanna tolerate or take care of an emotional woman then also don't expect some evolved woman to build, invest, pamper and make 'your' life better.
We have evolved ALONE, so we won't just go give ourselves to a mediocre guy who can't build himself alone. If you can't love us at our primitive phases then you are only here to use us. Period.

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

Some guys want a passionate lady. These are just his opinions.

I have a cat, because dogs might be more helpful and consistent, but wanted someone to keep me in check and stop life from being the same old every single day.

People should be themselves. Your perfect match will be looking for someone like you. Not someone who fits into a set of instructions.

[Azura_88]

@Lost_in_the_Woods :)

[bannacookies]

Thanks for the hilarious mytake. You seem to have some physiological issues bud.

[IcedLemonade]

Really

[OlderAndWiser]

"She must. . . have no psychological issues." We ALL have psychological issues.

"She must have a logical mindset" Most women are motivated primarily by emotions and make decisions in relationships on that basis. Men are more prone to making relationship decisions on the basis of logic.

[iBeowulf]

She'd be relying on you for money, using sex as leverage, as women seek a provider, so this makes no sense. Traditional women benefit from a plethora of feminist laws and don't lobby for change, so all women are defacto feminists. Go ahead and learn the hard way. Marriage, cohabitation, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows and women file 80-90% of divorces and get custody and alimony in 90% of cases.

[IcedLemonade]

Right. All I did was set the basket at a height it takes skill to dunk on

[iBeowulf]

No, you just renamed yourself mark.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Ok you had me for most of it. That's actually a decent idea of a list. But having a logical mindset shouldn't mean you can't have any emotions. And definitely not everyone who's unhappy or has any psychological issue is spiteful and entitled. And not everyone wants their life to center on peace and quiet. Making noise is fun too.

[wysiwyg2525]

Dude you have a lot to learn. Your going to change your views and attractions as you get older. Stop add BS to what a a woman should be like or whay you are looking. You will never find her with those high expectations.

[midnightmoon05]

Hahaha good luck..
You are 21…. you have a long way to learn what the real world is like.
that list will site be modified or you will k ow by certain age… loneliness will be your best friend.

[RenegadeSailor]

You're expecting a woman to be logical?

In that case I will take a magical unicorn sprikled in ferry dust being ridden by a leprechaun.

🦄🍀🧚‍♀️

[IcedLemonade]

isn't that how a feminist girl should be

[RenegadeSailor]

Not until about 47 when they are single, childless and hearding cats and have the big epiphany.

[aqua0101]

No is no perfect person , there is always something you have to deal with.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Look for a cute girl, not a hot one. That will be a good indicator if a woman has self respect enough to not leverage her body for attention or finances.

[IcedLemonade]

Looking for one i've never seen

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

I've met quite a few, usually they're not single; but sometimes you get lucky and they are. They're high quality women so you have to be on your a game and be a high quality dude or she'll see right through you.

[IcedLemonade]

I'm looking for a real feminist. Never seen one personally.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

They exist they just refuse to call themselves feminists at this point. Look for women that push for equalitarianism; that's the face of modern true feminism.

[Jlegacy]

I agree with you 100 percent. However, no human is born with this graces. Hence the need for them to be born again. My two cents.

[karaspara]

Cool and what are you bringing to the table?

[IcedLemonade]

Your elation

[exitseven]

@karaspara hahahaha

[msc545]

Good luck finding ANY woman that meets these criteria, at least in any Western country.

[IcedLemonade]

Or else suffer their miserable life with them

[msc545]

Exactly. Women are not worth the effort you have to make to tolerate them.

[FictionalCharacter]

Sounds like you want a Amish girl.

[IcedLemonade]

Actually a feminist

[MCheetah]

Good luck finding a single woman like that.

[IcedLemonade]

Need more luck in seducing her

[TrueConfection]

I wish you the best of luck.

[Kayla45]

Whatever floats your boat dude.

[Sketti2021]

Okay 👌