my younger cousin used to have a "crush" on me... chances are they're not real feelings - he just knows that you're a pretty girl and people tell him he's supposed to like pretty girls.
My first crush was in 3rd grade on my friend... but i realized my feelings weren't "real" , it was just fun to pick someone out and have a crush on them, especially when everyone else is talking about "who they like" and all that.
My cousin grew up and your nephew will too. If he's just being overly nice then let it go. If he tries to kiss you or anything then explain to him that you don't want him to do that, and he should only kiss a girl if she wants him to kiss her.
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Hi, I've been reading the other comments and the straight answer to this is that they "may" have a crush and secondly you should do NOTHING about it. Just love your nephew and treat them as a normal member of the family - he's probably treating you nicely as you're a female, (he may have seen this behaviour displayed by his parents) so you needn't be overly worried. If he does attempt any improper advances towards you, that's when to speak to an adult in confidence.
My 12 year old cousing has a "crush" on my older sister before. He used to get into a lot of trouble with adults, but he was always so well behaved around her, did her chores and was always around her.
Honestly, I don't think it's too serious. Just a phase.
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Unless he's tried to jump into the shower or bed with you I wouldn't fret.
Dont do anything about it lol, a phase.
that's strange, are you extra attractive?
Depends how old he is.
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