My mom is so stupid! She doesn't care about anyone but herself and her husband (my brothers father)?

[Anonymous]

Hi peepz I'm 17years old the oldest and only daughtner, I have 2 little brothers one's 8 and the other one 1year and 9months we don't share the same father I have my own dad. And the both of them share 1father. So my stepdad he was like a father to me bcoz he was there most of the times when my own father didn't give a damn about me. Oh ja and my mom and him are married! So he really did hurt my mother a lot he cheated on her a lot of times I usually saw him with different ladies every couple of months when I'm on my way to school I wanted to tell my mom but I didn't know how so I decided to tell my grandma which I'm close with and she told my mom and he denied everything and said that I wanted to separate them which wasn't true I didn't want my mother to get hurt. So she forgive him but he went on and on when my mom found out by herself the messages on his phone and stuff. He used to touch me when I sleep in the night I always though no man I'm just dreaming until one time I pretend to be awake and I saw him by my bed sitting on a pillow. So I was scared to tell anyone I told 1 of my close frndz nd she told my fav aunt, my aunt husband came and fetch me. They told my mom and she asked him and he denied it I was in tears that my mother did nothing after she asked him. So he cheated again on my mother and she decided that we move and we did friends&family supported us through this difficult time. She even filed a divorce I was glad that my mom finally open her eyes and realise that she doesn't need a man to help her financial. After couple of weeks he came a lot of times here and he even start sleeping here which I was so angry that I decided to tell my granny, she was furious. I told my mom if he moves in I'm moving out (and she told me I can pack my stuff and leave 2mrrw which really hurt) now I know she choose him over her own daughtner. I really don't want my mom to get hurt but she's falling for him again and I can see it she's so stupid. What should I do?

[BrandonMcIntyre]

Go to the Steve Wilkos show okay but that wasn't the best option I apologize but I have been through the same problem with my mom only I had to fight for my life one time but besides that just talk to your mom if that doesn't work then try the Steve Wilkos show. But if you really do need someone to talk to then I will talk to you cause I have been through this stuff 2 times and it hurts me when I see someone go through this also with there mom cause I don't have a mom anymore and I feel like it was my fault and I should if been there and now she is in jail cause she got addicted to drugs and lost my sisters who I barely saw

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer I don't have idea what "Steve Wilkos show" is first time I heard of it

[Klaatu51]

you're jsut the classic annoying daughter that doesn't want her mother to be with anyone. pack your things and leave it's the best thing you can do. you'll get rid of her and she'll get rid of you

[Asker]

Lmao wait a second it's not that I don't want my mom to be with anyone it's just that his using her for everything she pays the bills, she buys groceries actually she pays for everything. He never supported her with anything so for the record don't come here comment stupid stuff which u don't have a clue oh Ohkay Thanks

[Psychoanalytical]

She is not annoying she has serious concerns. Except if you are the "classic manipulative" hopper who looks for any woman to pay your bills and please you for a while then look for another.

Sadly, relationships aren't meant to go in this disturbing direction. A man and a woman should work their marriage out since day 1 for the sake of their children at least, that's why divorce and remarriage can have serious side effects on children.

Prayers to you Asker, I'm sorry you are going through this, you deserve the better.