Too much texting lands you in friend zone?

[Anonymous]

I've heard that too much texting with a girl puts you in friend zone. That's why I only text the girl I'm interested in every other day for a few minutes. Is this true?

[LiveYoungLiveFree69]

Noo I don't think so. I think texting is just a good way of staying in contact when you can't actually see the person at the time. Now, meeting is person is always better than texting, but it's okay to text every once in a while. If you're afraid of being friend-zoned, try throwing in a few flirty texts and see how she reacts. Nothing too strong at first, maybe just a compliment. If she seems a little put off and starts taking longer to text you, then you may have already been friend-zoned.

[valin]

Ooo thanks for the advice..gonna try that.

[Asker]

My texts are usually flirty or teasing at the very least and she usually takes only a couple minutes to respond.

[LiveYoungLiveFree69]

No prob valin =]

Thats a good sign that she texts back quickly. Most girls usually do (my phone is practically attached to my body lol), but if we don't have interest in a person we might take a bit longer. Does she ever flirt back with you? If she does, then you don't need to worry about the friend-zone. Try asking her to hang out sometime if that's the case.

[Asker]

Yeah, if I tease her she makes sure to get me back.

[LiveYoungLiveFree69]

Thats great! You should definitely ask her to hang out...based on what you've said it seems like she'll say yes. good luck =]

[MadHatterni]

Many people have different views, its like fb or MySpace just don't let them become bored of you and keep things interesting

[Asker]

So is my method okay? Every couple days for couple minutes? Texting about interesting stuff of course, not just a "what's up"

[MadHatterni]

Leaving time to be forgotten, instead of txting, take her out and show her that your much more then simple messages lol. actions speak louder then words

[Asker]

Lol, will do. There's nothing to substitute physical presence. Which is why I don't text that often because I don't want to be perceived as a "virtual" person they can only talk to while texting rather than a real human being.