Is it inappropriate that I'm 26 and still sit on my brother's lap?

[Anonymous]

OK, me and my brother have always been really close and we never had any kind of sibbling rivalry growing up and a lot of times when we hang out and watch TV togather, I'll sit on his lap, he'll wrap his arms around my waste and I'll put my head right next to his chin. I'm also sort of brontophobic (afraid of thunderstorms) so if one starts while we're togather I'll curl up in the fetal position, tuck my head between his chin and chest and he'll wrap his arms around me and pet my hair until the storm dies down. I know a lot of people think this is innapropriate but I don't have any romantic/sexual feelings, it just feels really safe and cozy <3

Yes it is innapropriate

No it is not

[Anonymous]

IT does sound super weird to many people, but I get it. My sister and I are super close as you described. I don't think she would sit on my lap if there was room available though... Our thing that people would like find is strange is wrestling, and at night before bed I often go in and lay with her and watch funny youtube videos right before bed. She is 17 and still wakes me up for when she has a bad dream lol Though we don't lay together or cuddle cuddle as you describe, I think it is okay, maybe not normal, but okay. Just don't tell others as they will almost certainly not understand.

[Xelebrum]

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Da fuq? :|

[Suhmer]

Have you ever seen the friends episode where rachel tries to date that danny guy and his sister comes over and they're reallllly, really friendly. maybe watching it will help understand what it seems like from an outside perspective. it just crosses the boundaries of brother and sister in my opinion

[Dewydd]

It’s actually funny you mention Friends because that’s why I’m here lol. At the end of the episode where Phoebe has the triplets, Monica is sitting on Ross’s lap as they’re all talking and it confused me a bit.

[Anonymous]

It's weird for sure, I would never do that.. I think you're a bit too old to curl up to your brother during thunderstorms..

[Esplorare]

WELL HELL THE FUCK YES. What the fuckitty fuck! I have two big brothers and I can't even imagine doing that ish.

[termanator]

Honestly, I think it’s fine. I’ll tell you a story that happened to me. One time I was with my family. It was me both of my sisters, my mom, my dad and my two brother-in-laws My sister, that is six years older than me was pregnant and there was no places to sit down because I was sitting in a chair And we were waiting for a table while my pregnant sister just sat down in my lap, and I didn’t think nothing of it. Neither did the Family she hasn’t ever done this before, but it wasn’t a bad experience. I would feel fine being there, cuddling her and just supporting her. She’s my sibling after all same with the other one.

[verticallyinsecure]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ee3_Y6qJ7Ps

reminded me of this episode lol

[MissPoirot]

Me too lol

[matheus_mb]

He's your brother, you said you don't have any romantic/sexual feelings. This is the way you behave with him, I'm not saying that it's common, but if he's okay with it, I think it's not my business.

[madhatters4]

as long as it's platonic and doesn't cross that boundary it sounds ok to me

[sizedoesnotmatter]

i have a question and don't consider it innapropriate please
can you feel any erection when you set on your brother's lap?

[Asker]

No he never had one -_-

[Anonymous]

There are many stories of brother/sister incest that begin with sister getting scared by a nighttime thunderstorm and seeking refuge in brother's bed.

[sp33d]

Don't get any more complicated than that and it's fine. Very close siblings, is all.

[Truth09]

of course it's not weird! i swear people are getting so creepy about everything nowadays!!

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

Eww what the actual fuck. Stop that