What does it mean if when you hug a guy he angles his body so your boobs don't touch him?

[4465loveyou5577]

OK, I'm a very huggy person (and I mean I like long, tight hugs) with my friends and family and one of my close friends is a guy and I often hug him. But when I do he always angles his body so my boobs don't touch him (and I'm a 28E so it's a WIDE angle, i. e. he's putting a lot of effort in keeping my boobs from touching him). Now I've always heard of guys hugging girls just to feel their boobs but why would he make a conscious effort to avoid my breasts when we hug. Guys, if you do this, why and girls, has this ever been an issue for you?

To clarify, he is NOT one of my family members.

[Esplorare]

You may be making him uncomfortable or there's a possibility there's a woman in his life whom he highly respects as a love interest and he finds your constant, boob on chest hugs to be inappropriate and disrespectful to engage in. Whatever the case may be, he doesn't seem to care for the way you hug him.

This has never been an issue for me because I'm very contentious of how I hug straight men especially if they have a girlfriend, wife, or are dating someone. Generally, it's not appropriate to have your breasts all up, close, and personal when you're hugging a friend.

[4465loveyou5577]

I thought that's just how hugs work. He never seemed uneasy about the hug itself though

[Esplorare]

nah, there are different ways to hug someone so you aren't rubbing your tits all over them.

[4465loveyou5577]

Like side and gap hugs?

Because those don't make me feel warm, safe, wanted and comfy :(

[Esplorare]

Yup, those are options. No offense, but why are you aiming to feel "warm, safe, wanted, and comfy" from random hugs you give platonic friends? That's a tad bit needy.

[4465loveyou5577]

I have anxiety issues but have issues holding down BFs

(Both for the same reason).

[Esplorare]

but you said this guy is just a friend so why do those anxiety issues/holding down a boyfriend issues come into play with him?

[4465loveyou5577]

I like hugs because I have anxiety issues and hugs from guys make me feel safe.

[Esplorare]

Okay but you have to understand that your neediness for affection may be considered as inappropriate and make others uncomfortable.

[Esplorare]

It's probably a better idea to find some other way to deal with your anxiety issues that doesn't involve being up, close, and personal with male friends.

[4465loveyou5577]

I know

[4465loveyou5577]

I go to therapy for it.

[Esplorare]

That's good.

[Esplorare]

thanks for mho

[Southern_Shorty]

He might want to keep it clean. He may be a very respectful guy.

[doodlecake]

I'm guessing he's a little awkward about your breasts and doesn't want tos eem like a creeper for touching them, however innocently... :-)

[Anonymous]

He prob thinks that it would be awkward or doesn't want u to be mad for him "touching" them. Just tell him its fine

[Hewsephus]

He probably feels awkward about your boobs touching him. Sometimes there is no reason why. I do it to nearly all the women I hug, which is very few.

[FrenchyRomain]

Avoid awkward contact

[Waffles731]

Thats weird