He promised me he wouldn't leave me and he did?

[love_life41]

I was dating this one guy for a couple years and he ended up cheating on me and I was just hurt afterwards and so I went out with my friends for a couple months and went to party's and stuff and I met this one guy named Zack, he changed my life into something worth it. we started talking and we would talk on the phone every night and I would have talks with him that I had never had a talk with before with anyone. He made me feel like I was worth something and he excepted me for me. We would go on dates and our parents met and his dad loved me and so did his little siblings he was basically my best friend. and then he asked me out on new years and then my life was just perfect and then in the middle of January he just randomly dumped me? he sayed he never saw me so he just broke up with me because we go to different schools and so I was just broken and for a couple months I was doing okay the this month it hit me so hard and I just miss him like crazy I call his best friend all the time and talk to him bout it because E's basically my brother and he went to his house last night and Zack told him the reason he broke up with me is because I was so annoying and he only went out with me for the make out part and he wanted a girlfriend and I found that out today and I'm just so hurt and I don't get how I was annoy he was the one always texting me and stuff and the thing that hurts the most is he said the sweetest things to me, and I believed everyone of them and we know all each other secrets and he promised me he wouldn't leave me and he did, I'm crying and I just need anybodies help now :(((((

[star709]

when I tried to get over someone I found all the things that I disliked about the person.That helped me get over them faster.then I find another person like a guy or girl friend that could help distrack my old feelings for whoever .but that is just me

yeah some people just know how to play the cards to get what they want out of someone. you will learn for it . I no I did/ now I able to telll what I guy wants right off the bat

yea I think the annoying part/texting he just put that to make him self look better.Show he was not the clingy one.

[sumina7]

Without knowing more details about you, it is not possible to know which of the followinis true:

You are a bad judge of character and always end up chosing a particular type of person who is prone to either cheating on you or randomly ending the relationshp when he feels like it.

or,

You have some personality flaws which make guys lose respect for you when they get to know you closely.