He said he loved me, then took it back?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend spends almost every day with me and invites me to his house all the time. We have great sex, but only about once a week.
We spent the weekend at his house. We had a great time and after sex he said he loved me. The day after, he took it back. He says he cares for me very deeply but he just doesn't have those kind of feelings for me yet. He says he wants to see if it will develop more..
He once called me the wrong name during sex. But he is very affectionate with me physically and said he is emotionally attached to me. What should I do? I’m crazy about him, but I don’t know if he cares about me at all.

Updates

+1 y

Im getting different answers from guys and girl..and I'm confused.. Maybe he is having a hard time identifying his feelings or got caught up in the moment, like you said. I'll give it some more time..

[cluelesswriter]

Get off that train before it's too late. I understand that you're crazy about him and that's a very difficult thing to even imagine doing, but someone who truly cared for you would NEVER in a million years call you the wrong name. A name is the sweetest sound to a person, and if he truly cared I doubt he would've made that mistake. Of course he is emotionally attached to you since you're having intercourse. Honey, you need to find a guy who values you, and that certainly isn't him. He doesn't want to see if it will develop more, he probably just wants more sex.

[Anonymous]

That's pretty wierd... Either he loves you and doesn't want you to feel like it's going too fast or he got caught up in the moment and said it without really meaning it... his honesty is a good thing as long as he's open to loving you and not just using you for sex. Proceed with caution.

[cajun]

he did'nt mean it and besides boys have hard time identifying with their feelings..