My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now. I could give you an in depth background story, but just know that this is the first time I've ever been truly in love (I'm 21 years old with my share of experience). And she is someone who puts walls up for fear of being vulnerable as she was hurt by the L word in the past.
Anyways, I said I love you pretty early on in our relationship. Like really early...as in one month. And I meant it, but it did somewhat freak her out. And she admits she is still scared of what she is feeling and how fast everything is moving, but she also admits she's never felt this before and has never had anyone like me.
She didn't say it back for a month, said it finally, only to take it back a few days later. It can be frustrating, but I obviously know this is a big deal for her and I'm not going to let it ruin our relationship by any means. However, I'm starting to think that she really does love me, but she is just scared to let herself admit that and is trying to hold back.
The other night she told me that sometimes she feels like she's there and lately she's been getting closer to me and expressing more emotion and affection. She's also been looking at wedding stuff a lot with her roommates as all girls do, but it's definitely increased lately.
And last night she made two interesting comments. We were talking about a feature of mine and she was like "Aw, so that means my children are going to be like this to." She then immediately paused, looked at me and awkwardly laughed. I laughed back and she said, "well, if!"
Later in the night she was making fun of me as she always does (we have a very laid back relationship) and she said, "Don't be said, I still lov-" and then she cut off and put her hand over her mouth and the subject was immediately changed.
I can't help but think this might means she does in fact feel that way, but is scared to let her feelings happen. What do you think? Girls?
Thanks!
Anyways, I said I love you pretty early on in our relationship. Like really early...as in one month. And I meant it, but it did somewhat freak her out. And she admits she is still scared of what she is feeling and how fast everything is moving, but she also admits she's never felt this before and has never had anyone like me.
She didn't say it back for a month, said it finally, only to take it back a few days later. It can be frustrating, but I obviously know this is a big deal for her and I'm not going to let it ruin our relationship by any means. However, I'm starting to think that she really does love me, but she is just scared to let herself admit that and is trying to hold back.
The other night she told me that sometimes she feels like she's there and lately she's been getting closer to me and expressing more emotion and affection. She's also been looking at wedding stuff a lot with her roommates as all girls do, but it's definitely increased lately.
And last night she made two interesting comments. We were talking about a feature of mine and she was like "Aw, so that means my children are going to be like this to." She then immediately paused, looked at me and awkwardly laughed. I laughed back and she said, "well, if!"
Later in the night she was making fun of me as she always does (we have a very laid back relationship) and she said, "Don't be said, I still lov-" and then she cut off and put her hand over her mouth and the subject was immediately changed.
I can't help but think this might means she does in fact feel that way, but is scared to let her feelings happen. What do you think? Girls?
Thanks!
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