My Brother likes my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

He flirts with her, puts an arm around her, touches her, and says that he wants her. My girlfriend is gorgeous. He is more masculine than me, so fighting him is. Bad idea. I feel insecure about hanging near him, as he has slept with my ex girlfriend.

[carlitoswayy]

Umm...

he slept with your ex? lol that's some serious shit right there..

to be honest with you... i have 2 brothers.. and thinking that them slept with one of my ex's.. its just shitty. talk to him. and why is your girl letting him put his arm arround? lol

[Redshift]

What the fuck does it mean he's more masculine than you. You can either protect your girlfriend or you don't. Simply don't let him near her. If necessary use force for fuck's sake! No woman would want to be with a wimp who can't stand up to someone else for her.

[jesshkah]

How has your girlfriend responded to this? I feel like it's kinda on her as well to reject him very clearly and be like "this is inappropriate and I do not want this type of attention from you."

[That-Guy]

This plus an open dialogue with your brother who doesn't seem to have your best interest.

[jesshkah]

@That-Guy ya agreed.

You don't have to FIGHT your brother to tell him that he's being an ass and ask him to stop. (hopefully)

[Asker]

My girlfriend is neutral to the responses.

[That-Guy]

What do we hear everyday when we talk about relationships? Communication.

Why do we know this but yet... ignore it? Well.. simply because it's not fun... it's not fun because we feel vulnerable when we share, it leads to uncomfortable dialogue and can even result in outcomes we don't want. However... every adult has had or still has a relationship which we wish we would've been more openly honest with our partners. It may lead to a better and stronger relationship by building trust and understanding.. or it may lead us to find new partners.
" My girlfriend is neutral to the responses. " - says to me you've mentioned this to her... not a sit down and lets discuss. If you force her to talk openly about this and listen to how all of this makes you feel? She's an intuitive women, she knows what's going on just as well as your brother's penis knows what's going on.

Get it out there... it will suck but it's better to be proactive then reactive. AMirite?

@theccanyon :/

[Asker]

and I do not want our family to break up over a relationship

[jesshkah]

Your family will not break up over this, I guarantee you. If anything your brother doing this will drive an even greater wedge in your family between you and him. You need to tell her to actively reject him, and also have a conversation with him asking him to respect your relationship.

[ChelseaSmiles]

Talk to your girlfriend about it first, and hey, even if you get your ass beat at least you've shown him that you're serious and he needs to back off.

[Anonymous]

Woe , So he slept with your ex. And likes your current girl. That's a little much.