I like my brothers girlfriend's brother?

[Anonymous]

Is that bad? like for a while it looked like he liked me too, but then I got scared because of the age difference and the fact itis my brothers girlfriend brother. but now he and his girlfriend broke up (she left him) I can't help feeling a bit of relieve?

[mechp]

How old is he again? Are you on decent terms with your brothers girlfriend because that matters a lot. just say hi and talk to him so that you get to know him better when you meet or ask your brothers girlfriend to set you up if thats possible

[Asker]

our two families are very close so I saw him on a regular basis until he got a girlfriend and went for training. but now that she left him I couldn't help to feel a bit relieved, but I think I blew my chances when I did not re-acted to his flirting. he is 24 and I am 28.

[mechp]

Ooh well he is younger than you. You need to know wether he is serious with you or not. A difference of 4 years is not that much. Like I Said the only way to do that is to talk with him and find out what he wants

[mechp]

The next time you meet him get his number

[Asker]

I do have his number. we even hanged out bunch of times. but guess I just have to get that friendship back. we havent' chatted in while.

[mechp]

Just text him and say "hey I was just checking up on you and its been quite a while" if he wants he will definitely continue the conversation

[madhatters4]

not really a problem. you may want to let your brother know you are into his ex's brother just so he isn't taken aback if you pursue something with the guy... but there isn't something wrong with liking the guy

[Asker]

no he and his girlfriend is still together.. lol

[madhatters4]

you mean the guy you like and his girlfriend broke up?

[Asker]

I mean my brother and his girlfriend, it isn't his ex's brother. his girlfriends brother. guess that is why also I didn't do anything back then, was scared she'd be mad at me

[madhatters4]

well i think you could've simply talked to your bro and his girlfriend to see what they might think about you potentially pursuing something with him

[selmo93]

Well Yeh. It'll hurt your brother a lot

[matheus_mb]

I don't see a problem, we can't prevent those things from happening. You just should analyse your situation to see if, in your case, this is a good idea.

[Sexualchrist]

Yes that is very bad you naughty little slut rawr 😉😅

[Asker]

hahahahaha!!

[Sexualchrist]

You may as well go for it by the way and I wish you well