Would you have sex with your best friend?

[Najie_TooSweet]

Me and this girl got into a debate because i said... best friends dont have sex with each other if so that just your friend with benefits not a best friend... and she said best friends do real shit mentally, emotionally, sexually...

I think that yes u do build with your bff mentally, emotionally, and PHYSICALLY (not sexually) but u don't take it no further than that...

P. s- a best friend don't happen over night it take time... in her case it took a month in a half lol smh

But am i wrong?

[Ripper_E]

Absolutely. I have two friends I would definitely have sex with, if that's what we both wanted. Its not something I would press them on. I care for and respect them. We've known each other for years. I'd rather do it with them than some girl I barely know.

And yes, I would not consider that's been around for little over a month, a best friend

[Najie_TooSweet]

If my best friend wasn't a girl i totally date... i love her to death... and if it came to that (if she was a boy) i let it happen only if i know we were going to be together

[Ripper_E]

If either came up to me and said they liked me or wanted to go out, I'd agree to it. Why not? I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship. If it happens it happens. I'm not ruling it out.

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

I wouldn't have sex with a best friend , now if i knew for sure we were going to be in a relationship or get married that would be different.

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

Thank you for Most Helpful Guy :D

[Afro-dite9]

You must certainly are... NOT wrong. Wow she must love playing second fiddle a lot huh? Nah I wouldn't pork a friend and esp a best one. Date my bestie ehhh I'd be iffy on, but to just flat out turn him into a fu*k buddy...*DAB* nahhh. Plus this 🐱 will ruin some lives lol I don't have time for stalkers going into 2017.

[Najie_TooSweet]

Ctfuuu word now he got feelings and she don't... i feel bad for him

[sbnalenon]

Its all about how you perceive things. If you are best friends for ever and donot think like its "friends with benefit" kind of relationship, and you two holds mental or emotional bonds and want to go for sex ie. Physical bond then i think its ok

[justagirl5]

My best girl friend? No way in hell. That's just disgusting to me.
My best guy friend? I'm in love with him, so yeah I'd do it if we were both 100% certain that we wanted it and he loved me back

[Princeofanons]

You're spot on in this debate. She's just in denial and don't want to accept the fact that her relationship with her "best friend" is nothing more, but a friends with benefits situation. I wouldn't ever cross that line unless we want more than just sleeping with one another.

[Faith18letsgo]

I think there are a verity of best friendships. I had a crush on my best friend in middle school. We’ve masturbated together, we sleep in the same bed.

But most of the time our friendship is just a sweet platonic thing.

[ThisDudeHere]

My lower brain says yes but my upper brain says no because I don't want to ruin the friendship.

[TayTay21]

Probably not, because if he were my bestie and we were into each other, we would've become a couple right away instead of 'just friends.'

[That0neGuy]

I could see how you are right but I can also see sanarios where she is right

[Najie_TooSweet]

Hmmm* scratches chin*... explain plz?

[That0neGuy]

Hi *caresses my beard* on my phone right now so sanarios are a bit long to write. But basically if it just starts as a friend is in an emotional wreck and ends in sex might be right for you. If it starts as one crushing on the other and that one ends up asking for release then it might be right for your friend

[pewdiepie_]

you are right. A best friend is whom you trust more & have a long and deep friendship. 1 month is like , hmm.

[Sara413]

Definitely not. Friends are friends. Not for fucking lol

[xHoneyxBeex]

No, that seems like it would be messy and cause problems later on.

[johnmsk]

can't fully agree.. best friends can have sex and be best friends.

[Najie_TooSweet]

But then feelings develop u mines well be a couple then rather then friends

[Anonymous]

My best friend is a girl and I would never have sex with her. That's just weird

[Yanoa_Yanza]

I wouldn't see a fuckbuddy as my best buddy, I just can't. I agree with you Najie

[Tomsta]

I have 2 female best friends, and yes to both

[Najie_TooSweet]

Straight savage

[Tomsta]

Huh?

[Autumn-Bunny]

Noooooo never he's like my brother and he's gay.

[TonyRyanAgain]

Both good reasons not to, haha.

[Autumn-Bunny]

@TonyRyanAgain I know right!

[Kylesar]

Nope

[alice55]

No I would never