Why doesn't my boyfriend treat me like his girlfriend!?

[Anonymous]

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks now, he doesn't hold my hand, he doesn't kiss me, he does nothing,he treats me like his friend, no one knows we are going out because he wants to keep it on the down low! he tells me he isn't ready for a kiss that he is really shy but even in class he treats me like one of the guys he doesn't even show that he has interest in me at all just the other day I wrote him a letter I told him to PLEASE write back and he still hasn't written back, I don't know what to do I like him so much I want my boyfriend not my friend, please help! should I tell him how I feel or dump him and move one?

[queenb2000]

Oh dear...If I were you, I'd do BOTH. Before you break up with him, tell him exactly what you're telling us, how he treats you like a guy pal and how it hurts you. He's young and it sounds like he's not sure about what he wants. He's not mature enough to handle a relationship anytime soon. As much as it's gonna suck, you have to kick him to the curb. You're so young, have fun, don't get serious with anyone right now, trust me.

[confused-girl-111]

I think he just isn't ready yet. Tell him how you feel and ask why he wants to keep your relationship a secret.

[Asker]

I have buht he juss says idk

[edgar334]

tell him but I don't think that will help. You need to dump him and tell him why so he will learn from his mistakes. That should crack the shyness a bit. Tell him how girls really are. That he doesn't need to be scared because you want this just as much as he does. unless you guys are like 16 then he might still be thinking about games. He will regret it in the future tho.

[Asker]

Im turninq 18 he is 17 I really like him I see him fridday buht even then we are NEVER alone!