What does it mean if a guy send videos of himself playing instruments?

[Adeline_nickName]

I knew this guy for 3years. He is my classmate and i spoke to him 3months back and like him so much. He plays drums, so i asked audios of it. He had sent audios too. But recently he sent his videos of playing drums in chats. He stares at my eyes when we speak.

I use to feel that he cares me. He waits for me and he tries to keep up his words when with me. Many of my friends said that he only sees me while talking to me.. not even the person next to me. They say he feels comfortable around me and he likes me than others girls in my class but I feel he gives importance to all. I am kinda confused and also i like this guy and have crush (crushed feelings!!!)

[truthbeknown]

Guys know that women dig musicians. He is sending you those videos hoping you are getting wet and want him.

[Adeline_nickName]

well we both live in a strict family.. so...

[truthbeknown]

So? He is still a guy with feelings.

[Adeline_nickName]

may be... but still i am confused... you havnt cleared my doubt yet.. My question is "does he have crush on me too?" Because my friends say he only looks at me while talking and won't even see the person next to me.. he just literally stares at me while speaking.

[truthbeknown]

Yeah, I think he likes you. He is showing off for you to gain your attention.

[Adeline_nickName]

like a friend? or feelings like i have?

[truthbeknown]

I think feelings. Guys don't keep doing that for just friends, or if he did, it would be more than just you. Does he send those videos to anyone else?

[Adeline_nickName]

he dont even text others mostly.. he texts rarely and he even came to me to tell he got a new bike

[Adeline_nickName]

he texts me even in busy schedules and he tries to reply all my msgs

[truthbeknown]

Yeah, I think this is his way of showing he likes you and is trying to get your attention.

[Adeline_nickName]

But when i tried to get closer.. he said "i won't love and i only have friends"... really confusing.. after 2 months.. he is behaving like this..

[truthbeknown]

That is weird. Is he shy?

[Adeline_nickName]

kind of shy guy but mostly he says me to be free around him cuz i am open minded but still shy towards him

[truthbeknown]

Maybe he is holding back because your families are strict?

[Adeline_nickName]

my family is not strict on love affairs if i do but i think his family is like that

[truthbeknown]

Well, just thank him for the videos, tell him you like them. Hopefully he starts to talk more and maybe ask you out or something.

[Adeline_nickName]

he asked me out and he dropped that plan long before and i thanked him and appreciated him. for his talents

[LastNightmare]

are we talking about real instrument or it's the thing?

[Adeline_nickName]

real instruments

[LastNightmare]

he must be want to show off to you too impress you

[Adeline_nickName]

does he have same feeling like i do?

[LastNightmare]

not exactly but he really trying to impress you

[Adeline_nickName]

what he gets by impressing me?

[LastNightmare]

he just not be wanting

[Anonymous]

1) He likes you
2) He knows you likes him, and wanna impress you
3) He is playing mind games

[Adeline_nickName]

mind games? i dont get it

[Adeline_nickName]

he likes me in what way? just friends or crush like i do?

[rixvan]

i think he likes u

[Adeline_nickName]

in what way?