My brother hit me- what do I do?

Question

We were just joking and he went on a recording app that changes your voice and he said "heil Hitler". Sort of joking, I told him "it's rude to say that when millions of people died" and joke-smacked him with a pillow twice, not to hurt him. Then he smacked me hard in the head with the pillow and I started crying immediately. My dad just called my brother because I had texted my dad and I told him to give me the phone (it was on speaker) but my brother said he couldn't even trust me with holding his damn phone. Now I'm crying and I feel disrespected. This isn't the first time my brother has hurt me and gotten away with it.

momomu · Accepted Answer

Unless you have an actual bruise or lump form on your head, get the fuck over it. There's a thing called "roughhousing", once you hit (no matter if you did it maliciously or not) you're going to get hit back. I'm talking about this from experience, I grew up with two NFL sized older brothers who barely know how to control their own strength. I've been put in headlocks, tackled, bitten, and even partially drowned. Hell, I remember getting hit with a golf club once. So don't start whining when he hits you with a MOTHERFUCKING PILLOW just a wee bit too hard, woman the fuck up and act like you have a uterus.

LittleSally · Accepted Answer

Well... see... when you have relatives, especially close ones like sisters or brothers this will happen - A LOT.
So you either find a way to deal with it or just stay out of their business...
Because, yeah, a brother will hit your harder and without regret, just like a sister would... If you irritated them enough.

MlleCake · Accepted Answer

First, don't "play hit" him, ever. You need to take a serious look at your relationship with your brother. Is this something that happens often? What are the circumstances? Has he injured you? Have you talked to your parents about it, and what did they say?

peachblossomluck · Accepted Answer

There's got to be some way to get back at him unless you just stay away from him. If he was trying to hurt you on purpose he's a dick.

king34 · Accepted Answer

well its just a pillow, my sister hits me with pillows all the time but when I hit her back she exaggerates and cries and screams just so my mom will hear and I only get in trouble, and she's 3 years older than me, so I don't have much sympathy for this.

Ben_Dover · Accepted Answer

Maybe he didn't realize how hard he hit you, or maybe you didn't realize your strength... I don't know

tartaarsaus · Answer

Quite frankly, he has every right to hit you back since you hit him first. If he was even remotely sensible he could have understood that it was clearly not serious since you didn't hit him hard. Apparently he hurts you more often and you can't hit him back (from what I've read on other replies), I'd say that your parents really have got to do something.

Ahmed_Sy15x · Answer

OMG don't act like a milk drinker... he didn't do it on purpose, he just did what he would do with a guy friend, you didn't need to call your dad in my opinion.

AnotherConfusedGirl · Answer

My brother used to hit me in the head with a metal pole. Unless that pillow had bricks in, you'll survive. Sounds harsh, but brothers aren't known for being soft and gentle.

Kurodo · Answer

Siblings, its nothing special. Yeah your brother is a jerk to you but thats pretty normal. Don't feel too bad or nothing though, there's a lot of things you can be doing more worth your time than worrying about him.

LifeLearner · Answer

did he apologize after hitting you? did you apologize for hitting him? basically to me it looked like you were asking to fight. from a brother's point of view. i could be wrong.

MrMysteryMan · Answer

He sounds like a douche bag. But it also sounds like typical "brotherly love". He may, if he actually cares about you, come back and apologize. Just don't hold your breath.

voldiemartin · Answer

I don't completely understand your context. How has he hit you before? If you want to talk more about this, feel free to inbox me.

ATuairiscean · Answer

I dunno sounds like a play fight that got out of hand.

JDavid25 · Answer

He made fluffly CRY? I think me and yo brother need to have a real heart to heart talk in a nice dark alley way.. Don't worry. We just gonna talk..

That1tallguy · Answer

sounds like good brotherly love to me it's what siblings do.

Harlock2045 · Answer

your brother is a dick, and I wonder what this behavior will ultimately lead to later in his life

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Put some chilly powder in his shorts that he's gonna wear tomorrow. Enjoy the fun next day... LOL

Shoebooty13 · Answer

Equality don't hit a guy and not expect to get hit back.

Peachman · Answer

he probably wasent trying to hurt you if he used a pillow

Deadpool76992 · Answer

Hit him back. Me and my brother are the same age almost. So we used to give each other black eyes and split lips almost everyday.

asp123 · Answer

your 15 years old, how did a pillow make you cry? i think you might just be overreacting just a bit and maybe looking for some attention

codyccc · Answer

When I was your age I was just orphaned working to jobs being regularly abused in every possible way so when you have real problems I will be happy to awnser

AlphaStyles · Answer

sorry about the head ache just tell your bro you hate jokes like that

Nahid1234 · Answer

he probably wasent trying to hurt you if he used a pillow

Blonde401 · Answer

You hit him first. Don't expect people not to hit you back if you start it.

PoliceLivesMatter · Answer

Name and address? He won't be seen again  😅😉

Pink2000 · Answer

Why are you crying? Did you expect him not hit you back?

Zk15224 · Answer

You got hit in the head with a pillow?

guywhoasksquestions · Answer

Jesus what an overreaction, calm down and learn to take a joke and take a punch without crying like a baby

Thisperson98 · Answer

So you hit him with a pillow then he hit you with a pillow. Ffs, it was a God damn pillow, both of you need to grow up.

llorando · Answer

Wait till he's not looking and put some laxatives in his drink for revenge.

Logical_Idolist · Answer

When he is sleeping, hit him in the balls.

beebella · Answer

Kick his ass.

jansoka · Answer

Hitting someone is definetely not ok!

Guru50 · Answer

punch him bach he wil realise

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Beat him up

1829_Antman · Answer

Brotherly love

Enochian · Answer

Stop crying and hit him back

killer4212 · Answer

Brothers and sisters fight. Stop bitching about it

lMike · Answer

asssssssholliiooooo

boochie0 · Answer

Hit him

jesusnicolas97 · Answer

Damn that sucks

Lumberman53 · Answer

Hit him back

kingler · Answer

That's sad..

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