Best Friend - Won't Stop Talking About Her Ex E ?

[Anonymous]

OK I've just about had it with her.

They broke up a month ago and she messaged me and calls me every single day crying about him. If I try to talk about anything she twists it about him and I can't stand it anymore!!!

Even while they were dating (since June 2017), he was treating her really badly and it's the same shit. I gave her advice but she won't take it and she'll just complain on and on and on.

I'm always there for her but my life can get difficult too. I found out yesterday that my ex is getting married to the girl he broke up with me for. And I'm really hurt. The guy I'm also talking to is treating me like shit. My assignments for university are driving me mad stressed and I DONT NEED HER ON TOP OF ALL OF THIS.

I swear to you guys it's 24/7 just him. If I post something on social media she'll blow up my phone to check whether he's seen what I posted and then she'll use that as an excuse to imagine it's some way of him playing games.

I told her everything that I can. I told her he's no good. I told her she needs to move on. I told her she needs to wait for her as well. I've done everything. I listen to her every day for 80% of my day crying when I have my own life and problems.

I tried to tell her my ex is getting marrie (as I was about to burst into tears), and she replied "wow. But you know me ex..."

IM DONE I don't know WHAT TO DO IM GONNA LOSE IT

[Shreyash108]

I had a friend like that once... she was all crying about her life and i initially helped her and listened tp her... but after a certain level it jist becams to much for me... i just became a person who she used to dump all her negatives upon me and i just could not take it anymore..

And more over that she told me that she has feelings for me... and i found a good way to get rid of her... i just said that i do not like her and asked her if she can get over me and she luckily said no so we decided to end it all...

The next day she came back saying she was just obsessed woth me and just wanted friendship... and i just lost it all... i told her what i exactly felt for her... and ended up fighting and never talked to her after it...

I know i was rude to her and all but i was just trying to help initially later realizing in what a mess i got myself..

Anyway in your case...
I understand how important peace of mind is... and you have got your own problems , work ks demanding and your friend isn't helping... may be jUST write a long text telling her that you yourself are messed up and are going to take a break from everyone for a while... may be it can help!..

Best of luck😊..
Tale care!