I’ve always got on better with guys because of mutual interests (enjoy watching football (and know my football both nationally and internationally), love playing proper video games, could easily hold my whiskey and beer/larger (not an alcopop person), could beat anyone at poker (Texas hold ‘em), was the best wingman and emergency ‘girlfriend’, no bitchy attitude or drama, openly talk about anything, like horror films etc.)
The girls I kept meeting were all bitches who loved constant drama, played mind games on their guys (who were genuinely decent guys!) and always did whatever was necessary to be the centre of attention... especially getting so drunk that it was embarrassing to be in the same group!!23 Reply- +1 y
Its relatable but I shouldn’t say anything cuz people call me a faggot everytime I say no to a woman.
I have no friends, I wish I had someone but it’s just the way it is. - +1 y
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Aww hun I’m sorry that you’ve ever had to go through that!! Just keep putting yourself out there and you’ll make friends and hopefully meet your lovely future partner.
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- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
I'd say guys. A lot of women like to play weird emotional games and you never know where you actually stand with them. Guys, in general, are more straight forward, honest, you do know where you stand, and it's so much simpler...
But it does get complicated once you get to a certain age and pretty much every guy you're friends with actually just wants to sleep with you. 🤔20 Reply
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I guess it depends on the situation...
guys are WAAAY less (I don't know how to put this)
they don't gossip and they aren't competing against us (if that makes sense)
so I would say guys (around my age)
unless like it's a girl question or need and opinion from a girl.. then girls :)20 Reply
Not sure, probably girls... because they are more invested in trying to relate and connect, and looking for something about you, to appreciate... generally speaking.
From a guys perspective, it is absolutely more frequent and easier to become friends with another guy, but that is because you found another guy who likes the same shit you like, thinks you are funny, and that is all it takes usually. However, the percentage of guys who fit into that category, in terms of candidates who could connect like that, is a much smaller percentage than say, girls who seem to be more invested in looking for a reason to connect and bond, so the percentage is higher10 Reply
That's a good question. In fact, I've been wondering that myself. My popularity is quite average. I share a lot of hobby's with the guys, but in the same time I'm quite sensitive and calm.
But in the same time I feel more freely when with guys. I can say what I want to. That doesn't mean that I can't do that when I'm with girls, but from previous experiences, girls tend to gossip. A lot. Also, because I might get feelings for a girl, and don't want to ruin everything with just one random word that I just blurred out. I get along fine with both genders, luckily, but if I have to make a choice, I think it's guys that I get along better with.20 Reply
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In my country, I usually do get along better with girls and females. First strong reason is that most of the guys, or men I met are either smokers or are just not my type of liking.
By liking I mean we don't share a common topic with each other.
It's a tad easier to get along with girls for one reason: they're more health-conscious!10 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
I like talking to girls because I'm a "nice guy" but I've actually moved further and further away from that after getting brutally friend zoned multiple times. When I was younger I thought talking to and being nice to a girl I liked was the first step in the right romantic direction. Unfortunately in most circumstances nothing can be further from the truth.
Despite being a "nice guy" I got some tough guy traits. I wrestled in high school and some in college. Became a pro mma fighter later. But I don't relate to the average American guy well when it comes to major league sports and cars.
I'm weird.10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
Definitely Guys, most of my friends have been guys, ever since i was 6, i am now 25 years old, i guess it's because I'm a tom boy, i like to rough house with the boys and beat them in their competitions (doesn't help i'm 6"4' and stronger than them) XD lol, just kidding, in all honesty i prefer guys because i can communicate on a guys level and I'm not one for the girly girl conversations or running away from a sports ball, i have taken quiet a few to the face and body and still managed to get the guys respect i deserve.
i'd rather hang out with like 4 guys and be the only chick, it works better that way because they don't have to decide on plans, i'm down for most things that guys do that girls don't want to do10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
I don't really get out much or have any friends anymore, but I would say I would get along much better with girls compared to most guys if the girls were the girly girl type of girl. I know I would get along too well with the typical guy because I am not a typical guy, and I also wouldn't get along that much with girls if they were either militant feminists or "no class" ghetto girls.
10 Reply girls most guys are yapping about fucking this and fucking that and objectifying women so much I get a bit nauseous at how much of a waste of oxygen the majority of the male population has become
10 ReplyI get along better with guys. Girls are too competitive even when there is no need to be. Guys are better to be around. Besides they enjoy my company and I there's
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I get along better with guys because I’m not a girlie girl and most times girls tend to be too catty and I don’t do drama. I can count how many girl friends I have on 2 fingers. ✌🏽
10 Reply Im actually better to get allong boys but im also shy towards them xD so after the shyness i can be pretty good friends with guys
20 ReplyI seem to get along best with girls. I think perhaps it is because I was raised more by my mom and had a sister growing up.
20 ReplyI get along better with women. The friendships are easy and genuine for me. When I try to be friends with guys they're always trying to be more than friends. I currently don't have any male friends.
20 ReplyMen definitely. I have my female friends but I feel more comfortable being around men and talking to men.
10 ReplyGirls, though I wish I could have more male friends without them hitting on me immediately or thinking I have a crush on them :/
10 Reply511 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic. Considering I've been in about 500 fights with my brother and about 100 more with various dudes, and none with girls- I'm going to say that I get along better with girls. Girls usually don't do or say things that make me want to kick their ass.
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Guys are better since less drama. some girls love drama more. I have more guy friends because they all Have learning disability.
10 Reply If we're messing around or acting silly then it's guys, but when it comes to actual friends or it being personal then girls.
20 ReplyI think I can get a bit catty which most girls seem to understand while guys get annoyed so I’ll say girls for now
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I wanna say both because I mess with a lot of dudes NO HOMO at school more than girls (I talk to girls just most of all my friends are dudes) then I live with 2 sisters, my aunt, and my mother so idek
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Guys. I don’t talk about makeup and hair like other girls do
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i like to say guys but really i can get along with anyone
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Girls, Hate hanging out with guys, because I can talk to women easier. Actually my wife would rather I do talk to women then men.
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I feel like I get along with everyone. I'm a huge people person. I can't stand seeing someone upset or sad. I'm there for all
30 Reply Guys mostly, I usually have little in common with women.
10 ReplyEven split, there are some things that are easier to talk about with either guys or girls
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I have more guy friends because of my passion for sports.. cars.. games... they are more reliable too
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Girls tbh, Younger guys around my age don't really talk seriously at all. Just fuck around and that gets annoying after awhile
10 Reply For me I am better friends with girls, just because I can open up to them more, guys I can be good mates with but I can't be as close to as I can with girls
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Girls... I can relate more to and connect better with women... They understand me better...
10 Reply Girls. I don't know but there's something about being friends with the opposite sex. It brings about a certain honesty in people.
10 ReplyI would say I get along better a little bit with girls. I don't have much problems with both, but when I have, it's always a guy.
10 ReplyBOYS, i have a few close girlfriends but i just naturally get along so much better with guys and i love that there’s no drama and that they’re just so much more laid back and clear headed
21 ReplyGirls, guys I find a total wined up. Girls I can relate to...
20 ReplyGuys I think; girls are basically trying to become guys. Help.
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Females, I like to bitch and gossip and females just do it better than guys
10 Reply - +1 y
Guys tend to be quite aggressive in their banter, but personally I get nervous around girls I like. So I find I get on better with guys
10 Reply Guys I can never relate to girls I only ever had guy friends which started issues in relationships but I found a guy that accepts that and its all a good time now
10 ReplyNeither really
I get along with individuals but not a lot if them10 Reply- +1 y
I don't hold down platonic relationships with the opposite sex
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Probably 50/50. But guys seem more willing to converse with me.
10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
Guys. They are more down to earth, less drama, more straight forward and honest. Not all, but most.
30 Reply For me it just depends if you're a cunt if I can be you're Freind.
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Girls. I'm usually suspicious and distrusting of other guys.
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Neither
I get along better now with dogs actually.
LOL20 Reply Girls they understand what it’s like being a woman.
10 ReplyIn guys , I prefer talking to the known topic such games.
In girls I talked about the books or school.
That's all10 ReplyWith guys. Girls often get in love with me. I don't want to make any misteps.
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Guys, I find them less dramatic, less competitive, and they always have my back
20 Reply Guys I keep away from women so I don’t catch feelings
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Girls. Guys my age don't understand me at all. But In general I usually get with older people.
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I get along better with girls. I was able to vibe with them since preschool but there's a lot of female supremacists so I keep to myself. Guys used to be jerks to me as a kid
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
Guys. I can't understand girls, I never even had a kiss in my life, and no girl was ever attracted to me
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well I didn't talk to girls so i can't say but with guys yes
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I thought I could get along with both but honestly not sure
10 Reply Guys because of interest. But this only applies on people of my age 18-30.
10 ReplyI myself get along better with guys, i have very few female friends!!
10 Reply- +1 y
I don't know why, but I do get along with girls a lot more than guys 😂
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Both but there's less drama with guys.
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I get along better with guy cats.
20 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
Guys. I rarely if not never speak to women. I haven't since I was 12.
11 Reply Guys. Girls attract drama.
10 ReplyMost of my friends are guys so yeah...
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