To those who dont want kids, whats ur reason?

[ElloElloElloEllo]

i dont want them either, i have a list of reasons y too. just wanna hear other peoples thoughts

[JudgmentDay]

These quotes below should be sufficient to explain how my perspective of things are about stuff like this:

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I feel their existence isn't justified at all. They have NO NEED TO EXIST and become part of this kind of a world. Did you, me or anybody else WILLINGLY SIGNED UP AND VOLUNTEERED TO COME HERE INTO THIS KIND OF A WORLD? And if you had known beforehand about everything about this world, INCLUDING THE BAD AND HORRIBLE THINGS, then would you still have wanted to arrive and come here into this kind of a world?

[JudgmentDay]

Thanks for MHO!

[passinby]

I got fixed for one and there is no personal future in it. The entire process is a deathtrap for a man in this culture.

[Volvagia]

barely have the energy to take care of myself so I am defs not spending a single millijoule of my precious energy on some little shits

[ARWINGx1]

1. Feels too much of a gamble regarding what kind of personality the kid (s) will have.

2. I'd like to "keep my options open". Which isn't the case when taking care of kids

[kylonaberrie]

i gotta get my own damn life in order. i can barely take care of myself, I'm not gonna make someone else reliant on me, that sounds super stressful

[codycccccc]

It's simple math we need to decrease the world population buy 6 billion people or humanity won't survive another 300 years me adding kids isn't helping that

[JudgmentDay]

Humanity won't last forever either way. Like everything, there's a limit. Eventually our time is gonna be up also. Other species are not exempt from extinction, thus neither are we.

[WeirdoWerdo]

Thats my sister to me... Giving me the expectations to give my parents grandchildren...

[PrettyRegular]

I think I will want kids at some point. Normally people want to become parents at some point.

[Juxtapose]

Overpopulation and they're just a useless burden.

[JudgmentDay]

You have to deal with them while their alive. You'd also have to deal with it when and if they die before you do. There's just no need for them to exist and come here. They may even resent you for creating them one day and realize, hey wait a minute, I had never asked to come here in the first place, and now that I'm here, I'm gonna die some day too, they'll ask you why did you create them at all in the first place? They might even ask you were you completely not aware of how everybody has to die eventually? They might even ask you how was any of it justified, and why couldn't you had just left it the way it was before, without ever adding them into this kind of a world. Then you'd end up stuck with a miserable and unhappy child.

[JudgmentDay]

You have to deal with them while *they're* alive. stupid autocorrect bullshit

[Juxtapose]

@JudgmentDay They can always just kill themselves quickly if they really don't like being alive. Existence is a gift and what has to be strong enough to appreciate it even though our transience is scary.

Yeah, I'll die and not exist but there could be worse things. Just imagine if the Christians were right and most of us were going to burn in hell or some bullshit. Now teaching a kid *THAT* is fucking child abuse.

[Juxtapose]

*one has to be strong

[JudgmentDay]

@Juxtapose Then you might like what is said here about that:

Believers in Hell should not procreate, and should embrace antinatalism
rationalwiki.org/.../Essay:Believers_in_Hell_should_not_procreate,_and_should_embrace_antinatalism

[Juxtapose]

@JudgmentDay I agree with your points 100%. All that is missing is that believers in hell genuinely enjoy the thought of others being tortured forever and even if you explain the implications of this they still gleefully claim that the people who are in hell 100% deserve it.

Those people are sadistic sociopaths.

[Anon-ymous1]

1) Gross
2) Hell with that

[vald9inches]

they are there to replace you and kill you slowly

[laughinglad999]

l would love to be a dad

[Pink2000]

Don’t have time

[Anonymous]

Nooo