i know how you feel. its hard but maybe you should find some better friends. to help me better answer this question how popular are they? this may be part of your problem
I have this same problem too. It hurts me. It really does. But I have to remember we are busy. Then again, many others seem to be but still text each other on a regular basis.
I don't have an answer for you, u just want to know that I can relate and that you aren't alone.
You're a cute girl. Maybe they are feeling jealous because they aren't as cute as you are. People with low sense of self-esteem will tend to associate with the "the lowest" so they can feel more superior in comparison. These people aren't really your friends. Volunteer at the local Food Pantry or Soup Kitchen, hospitals usually use volunteers as greeters, etc. Hopefully you can meet some like-minded people who can be a REAL friend to you and you can be a friend to them.
I don't hang out with my friends a whole lot. Mostly because I'm always with my boyfriend. When I do I generally only see them like once a week or something like that
I am the same looking from outside in it looks like they all intermingle but i seem to be just on the outside unless someone needed a hand doing something. Ehich i didn't mind i like helping others out but it came to the point it felt like thats all i was there for i know it probably might not have been, it just looks like everyone got someone they csn rely on if needed be but i dont think i can say the same sometimes.
Do you ever ask them to hang out with you? If so, do they say yes most of the time? The ones that seek your companionship are the ones to keep. Dump the rest.
Because I get really into my dance moves and I love dancing alone and freely. When I'm with a guy friend he might want me to dance with me or pay attention to him so it gets to be too much when I want to dance and also have to entertain him. For female friends it can be tricky too, especially if the music sucks.
@courtney06 are you the kind of girl to rise the mood of people around you? yea that pissed me off so hard once. went out to a club with a coworker, dude stiff as a rock, sticky as glue I even had to kinda knock him back cause I wanted my dancing space. also hate it when clubs are too full
Rising people's mood? That only happens if I'm truly enjoying myself or really high on something. I do often get told by people they enjoy watching me dance so that could rise their mood too.
Yeah I don't like when clubs are too full either. I need my dance space.
I barely speak to my irl either.. My best friend is always working and my other friends is always busy with a boyfriend or her other friends. One of her reasons to not hang out/post things that she is hanging out with me is because of an old mutual friend who will get angry at her... And I don't know what to do either, I try to hang out with them but my best friend is always working and barely free. And the other friends I don’t feel so close with her anymore
wow I'm in a similar situation, except I don't have a best friend. Just friends. No one gets angry though, they just have other priorities that don't involve me.
if they did they'd do anything to be with you. especially girls cuz they are social creatures times 50000000. If they aren't talking or asking to see you then they don't care for you.
Treat girls that are friends like a boy friend.
If the girls that are friends don't like you they won't respond or initiate anything.
If they like you they will initiate and be social.
Kez, people acting strangly is very common phenomena. it COULD have to do sy with u, butttt in most cases they just exteriorize their own problems u know. how do u interact when u go out?
That always happens to me. One time all my friends went to a movie and I called one asking if they wanted to hangout and they were like "*blank* was supposed to call and ask you, I just assumed you were busy"
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i know how you feel. its hard but maybe you should find some better friends. to help me better answer this question how popular are they? this may be part of your problem
I have this same problem too. It hurts me. It really does. But I have to remember we are busy. Then again, many others seem to be but still text each other on a regular basis.
I don't have an answer for you, u just want to know that I can relate and that you aren't alone.
You're a cute girl. Maybe they are feeling jealous because they aren't as cute as you are. People with low sense of self-esteem will tend to associate with the "the lowest" so they can feel more superior in comparison. These people aren't really your friends. Volunteer at the local Food Pantry or Soup Kitchen, hospitals usually use volunteers as greeters, etc. Hopefully you can meet some like-minded people who can be a REAL friend to you and you can be a friend to them.
I don't hang out with my friends a whole lot. Mostly because I'm always with my boyfriend. When I do I generally only see them like once a week or something like that
I am the same looking from outside in it looks like they all intermingle but i seem to be just on the outside unless someone needed a hand doing something. Ehich i didn't mind i like helping others out but it came to the point it felt like thats all i was there for i know it probably might not have been, it just looks like everyone got someone they csn rely on if needed be but i dont think i can say the same sometimes.
Do you ever ask them to hang out with you? If so, do they say yes most of the time? The ones that seek your companionship are the ones to keep. Dump the rest.
I always go out with myself. sometimes there are people who join me and I kinda feel more restricted at having a good time.
might help out if you find a way of enjoying your company more
kind of sad tho I didn't want to be a lonely wolf, I was born into it
I'm the same way. I too feel a little more restricted at having a good time when I especially go dancing.
@courtney06 how so?
Because I get really into my dance moves and I love dancing alone and freely. When I'm with a guy friend he might want me to dance with me or pay attention to him so it gets to be too much when I want to dance and also have to entertain him. For female friends it can be tricky too, especially if the music sucks.
@courtney06 are you the kind of girl to rise the mood of people around you? yea that pissed me off so hard once. went out to a club with a coworker, dude stiff as a rock, sticky as glue I even had to kinda knock him back cause I wanted my dancing space. also hate it when clubs are too full
Rising people's mood? That only happens if I'm truly enjoying myself or really high on something. I do often get told by people they enjoy watching me dance so that could rise their mood too.
Yeah I don't like when clubs are too full either. I need my dance space.
@courtney06 good you are not. was just checking for female double since I'm kind of an entertainer.
you sound kinda normie.
I'm far from normal.
@courtney06 don't know really. well have a nice day or something
I barely speak to my irl either.. My best friend is always working and my other friends is always busy with a boyfriend or her other friends. One of her reasons to not hang out/post things that she is hanging out with me is because of an old mutual friend who will get angry at her... And I don't know what to do either, I try to hang out with them but my best friend is always working and barely free. And the other friends I don’t feel so close with her anymore
wow I'm in a similar situation, except I don't have a best friend. Just friends. No one gets angry though, they just have other priorities that don't involve me.
Yeah same.. I don't know why tho
It sounds like you worry about things you don't have to be. Send me a message and we can talk about it.
probably.
if they did they'd do anything to be with you. especially girls cuz they are social creatures times 50000000. If they aren't talking or asking to see you then they don't care for you.
Treat girls that are friends like a boy friend.
If the girls that are friends don't like you they won't respond or initiate anything.
If they like you they will initiate and be social.
girls are illogical creatures too.
It means you never ask them to hangout so they figure you aren't interested in spending time with them so in return they don't bother.
They don't act like a friend. Real friends support you and understand that you're busy. Some people can be jealous of you.
Simple
Kez, people acting strangly is very common phenomena. it COULD have to do sy with u, butttt in most cases they just exteriorize their own problems u know. how do u interact when u go out?
That always happens to me. One time all my friends went to a movie and I called one asking if they wanted to hangout and they were like "*blank* was supposed to call and ask you, I just assumed you were busy"
Yes I’d say that’s a good indication
They would ask you to come for sure without a doubt
In a few short years you will know the pleasure of not being a teenager with teenage friends.
It could. If you asked them to hang out and they started to turn you down, that would be a clearer sign of dislike.
Don't sweat it because when you turn 22 you definitely won't care anymore and will easily focus on what makes you happy.
I've experienced this too. I called someone the other day to chill and he had an excuse and then later he was at my other friends house.
Tbh they just jealous. Its their failings not yours.
Jealous of what
@Marrry who knows. Most people are losers tbh so it doesn't surprise me.