Most molestations occur with family members. Soooo is second guess that as well. I was molested by the families “favorite uncle”. Until 7 years later when we all exposed him and he has done thing to me and all my male and female cousins. Trust NOONE
That's horrible, I'm very sorry to hear that!! Hope you can one day heal from this. As for him, what a complete heartless bastard... why hasn't he been thrown in jail yet? I agree with you on "trust none" but I trust my family members wholeheartedly for now. I always keep my guard up, if I do (I hope it never happens) encounter one of them doing something to my future kids... best believe I will be killing someone!!😠
He was arrested and required to move out of the state for 10 years. I’ve definitely healed. It was my little cousin (boy) who is still really messed up. :( But that’s my dads brither. And he never in his life thought his own brother would do this to his child or nieces and nephews. So I try to advocate to never trust anyone. 🤷🏻♀️ And thank you
As much of a traditional man as I am (and a supporter of gender roles), I honestly see no problem in a man babysitting. He can still be the main provider and head of a household, and be able to be a caregiver for children. Ain't nothing wrong with that.
@The_Dean : Men also have the capacity to have gay sex. Now don't change the topic. This is not about fathers taking care of their children. You are liberal and don't believe in fixed gender roles.
@awkwardman : Women can molest, but that's much rarer than men molesting. Women never rape. That's a fiction created by Leftists to obliterate gender distinctions.
Howdy, sorry to cut your conversation but what the hell? How is that even possible? You're the one with the dick, and even if she did, she's the one getting pregnant not you. You're the one giving sperm not the one receiving
Answer A and C are kind of "eh". I wouldn't let a stranger babysit my kid, doesn't matter if it's a woman or a man. But yes, I would let a guy babysit my kid
Yeah I would as long as I knew he was trustworthy... Most likely one of my brothers really.. Or my Uncle.. But I can see why women are more chosen for the task of babysittin though..
Trustworthy ones I know, yeah. My punk cousin, my dad, my half-brother. Not some random dude-bro, though. xx ~ Mrs Manson
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i was sexually assaulted by my male babysitter (who was 16) when i was only 5, so no, i wouldn’t let any man who wasn’t DIRECT family babysit my child.
If I didn't care about my child being raped, killed, or kidnapped... Then yeah, But I would not risk leaving my child with anyone... People can't be trusted... I'd have to have my eye on my child the whole time the babysitter is there
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For man or woman, I would not trust a complete stranger to care for my child or pet!
It depends on the person. If he was a certified babysitter or if I've seen how he is with kids I would.
Only family members that are man = yes. Apart from that, I would never let any male species babysit my future kids
Most molestations occur with family members. Soooo is second guess that as well. I was molested by the families “favorite uncle”. Until 7 years later when we all exposed him and he has done thing to me and all my male and female cousins. Trust NOONE
That's horrible, I'm very sorry to hear that!! Hope you can one day heal from this. As for him, what a complete heartless bastard... why hasn't he been thrown in jail yet?
I agree with you on "trust none" but I trust my family members wholeheartedly for now. I always keep my guard up, if I do (I hope it never happens) encounter one of them doing something to my future kids... best believe I will be killing someone!!😠
He was arrested and required to move out of the state for 10 years. I’ve definitely healed. It was my little cousin (boy) who is still really messed up. :(
But that’s my dads brither. And he never in his life thought his own brother would do this to his child or nieces and nephews. So I try to advocate to never trust anyone. 🤷🏻♀️ And thank you
I don't know. I think it’s important for parents to be equally involved in their child’s life.
But if I had no choice I’d leave the child with my parents lol
I don't see why not. I used to babysit and I don't see way a man couldn't do it
I wouldn't like to let a stranger baby sit my child, I don't care if its a woman or a man
I wouldn't let anyone babysit that i didn't know personally regardless of gender.
I wouldn't let anyone who was a stranger babysit my hypothetical kid, regardless of gender.
No. Not just because of the possibility of molesting. It's just not something men should be doing. It's for women.
As much of a traditional man as I am (and a supporter of gender roles), I honestly see no problem in a man babysitting. He can still be the main provider and head of a household, and be able to be a caregiver for children. Ain't nothing wrong with that.
@The_Dean : Men & women either have fixed gender roles or they don't. You say they don't. There's a whole lot wrong with that.
Mate, what I'm saying is that men have the capacity to be caregivers, too.
Women are the primary caregivers of the house, indeed, but men could also give care in addition to their providing for the family.
This is why I say a male babysitter wouldn't be absolutely absurd.
I'd never be a stay-at-home-dad, but I'd still want to take care of my children and give them love when I'm home from work, too.
@The_Dean : Men also have the capacity to have gay sex. Now don't change the topic. This is not about fathers taking care of their children. You are liberal and don't believe in fixed gender roles.
If you say so.
So women can't molest a kid? I take it women can't rape either? Its the same thing.
@awkwardman : Women can molest, but that's much rarer than men molesting. Women never rape. That's a fiction created by Leftists to obliterate gender distinctions.
If you think women never rape then you were failed as a child.
@awkwardman : You are brainwashed
No im not. Im more free thinking then you are. Oh should i mention i was raped by a women or was that brainwashing by ET phoning home?
Howdy, sorry to cut your conversation but what the hell?
How is that even possible? You're the one with the dick, and even if she did, she's the one getting pregnant not you. You're the one giving sperm not the one receiving
@Nadim171 : Thanks
Answer A and C are kind of "eh". I wouldn't let a stranger babysit my kid, doesn't matter if it's a woman or a man. But yes, I would let a guy babysit my kid
It depends on who the guy is. The same goes for women.
Yeah I would as long as I knew he was trustworthy... Most likely one of my brothers really.. Or my Uncle.. But I can see why women are more chosen for the task of babysittin though..
Trustworthy ones I know, yeah. My punk cousin, my dad, my half-brother. Not some random dude-bro, though.
xx
~ Mrs Manson
i was sexually assaulted by my male babysitter (who was 16) when i was only 5, so no, i wouldn’t let any man who wasn’t DIRECT family babysit my child.
If I didn't care about my child being raped, killed, or kidnapped... Then yeah,
But I would not risk leaving my child with anyone... People can't be trusted... I'd have to have my eye on my child the whole time the babysitter is there
Only if I knew him personally.
Same goes for women.
I would not let anyone look after my kids unless I knew them and trusted them.
I’m so never having children but I wouldn’t even dream of letting a stranger of any gender babysit a child.
Only if I knew him personally, and that applies to women as well.
I'd be happy with many of my friends looking after my kids
I would only either hire people I know personally or a professional with references. This applies to both men and women.