It is perfectly fine. You seem to have said that they were all of the same sex. Given that, I cannot see anything wrong with it.
The presumption of the other respondents here is that the girls were all going to engage in lesbian sex. That is possible but not likely.
For more likely is that young teens at that age become somewhat "exhibitionists." At any rate, kids in that age group begin to lose that sense of modesty that they learned in their younger years and while there is a sexual dimension to this, it generally does not lead to sexual behavior.
(Fun fact - they are at about the age where they are most likely to start to sleep in their underwear or the nude. In the case of boys they will also tend to walk around the house unclothed more often. Girls, for various reasons, are less likely to do so.)
This tendency will ebb and flow with your child as she matures. Depending on how she was raised and a host of other factors she may tend more modest or not.
Bottom line, do not overthink it. It is not likely that they engaged in sexual behavior. If nothing else the percentage of lesbians in any female population is likely to be small in any random sample. The odds are that you have more to worry about with your daughter having sex with one boy than you do with a bunch of girls at a sleepover.
No, you''re not wrong and yes I would allow it. First of all, it won't be anything they haven't already seen in a locker room at school after gym. Second, kids that age in 2019 have a lot less hangups about nudity and being seen naked than adults do now and did when they were that age.
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Allowed, good decision but be careful. Some time back I allowed my daughter to do the same. Fine. Later I caught her with a friend (a girl) touching each others' sensitive parts. You have to see if your daughter or friends have any lesbian inclination. Otherwise it is OK and healthy.
they practically asked if they could have sex and you said yes, at that point it's up to your discretion
Of course I wouldn't allow it. Why are you even asking anyone else? Put your foot down.
It's not immoral. But your daughter may be into girls. Have the talk with your daughter. By talk, I mean talk to her about sex and the emotional baggage that comes with that.
U already know. U spy on them or u would em do something for you to spy on? )) my sister was always bring bitches for sleepover haha
I probably wouldn't allow it, but I am sure nothing will happen. That is the age that they might start to experiment with each other and try things.
That's my age so I'm thinking this is pretty weird. For one I wouldn't ask but two I doubt we would even think about doing it.
There is nothing wrong with it at all. Firstly, I have always slept naked for as long as I can remember. Secondly, I was brought up in a naturist family, so nudity is not an issue for us.
It must not be first occasion for them to sleep or stay naked. Let them enjoy in nude. Your decision shows your maturity and acceptance of age reality.
Since they all are same aged, yoy you can allow them. There is nothing much to worry, they are just excited about their body transformations.
Tell her that it's not adviced to do so, but allow her.
I don’t see anything wrong with it. Actually I am surprised that they even asked you. Surprised they didn’t do it in secrecy. When I was there age I would have been too shy to talk about it.
Girls like to experiment... do you think they may be having sex?
That's a bit weird I'd be a little skeptical about that.
i wonder why they wanted to sleep naked in the first place
You can. But you shouldn't.
lol no. i would not allow it
How do you feel about the situation?
That is honestly weird
Im surprised they asked lol i guess its alright
If you don't, you're a shit mother
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