Why is my dad disappointed in me ”still” being a virgin?

[Minato157]

As you can see I’m a 16 year old dude and my dad can sometimes be pretty weird and that’s how he is acting now. He says that he could only have dreamed of looking like me when he was my age.

It all started in the car when we somehow began talking about it. He told me that it’s important to use protection and I knew that. He then reassured that I wasn’t a virgin and I proudly said that I am. After that he got almost mad I would say. I was just quiet and waited for him to be done with his shit and then continued like nothing happened.

I mean I am pretty good looking but I’m not that good looking as he is trying to hint me to be. I’m not gonna tell my mom about this as we never talk about stuff like this.


Pic of me: https://imgur.com/a/S6ffEZ4

[MackToday]

Sounds like he's trying to live out some sick fantasy through you. He can't do it so he wants his son to be some kind of dumb ass player. You should distance yourself from him a man who would lead his son wrong has serious issues. He doesn't have your best interests at heart or doesn't even know how a man should live. As soon as you can get a job and move out the better. I'd keep any women you end up with away from him too.

[Drowningkingfish]

I think your dad is caught up in the virgin tier status stigma and probably thinks that if you dont get laid tommorrow then you'll never be laid in your life, he thinks it shameful to be virgine, maybe his parents told him the same thing when he was your age.

Right now stick at what you want to do with your life and dont let him rngage in the same convo as its kind of personnal.

[Minato157]

Yeah I will shut him down next time. It was so awkward when a man in his 40’s started rambling about MY sex life.

[Hannah_98]

That’s strange. Maybe it’s just cause he’s jealous he wasn’t as good looking as you when he was your age? I mean, either way he should definitely respect your choice to not be sexually active.

Obviously I’m a lot older than you, but I still sometimes have my parents pressuring me into the dating scene. Just know you’re not alone in being told you should be something you’re not.

[Minato157]

Yeah it does suck

[QueenTanya]

You aren't that good looking. Anyway, your father should actually respect your decision for remaining a virgin. You're still young and it's your choice, not his. I despise when people play the game of 'who can lose their virginity first' and the virgins are the losers. That's not how it works. So, no need to take your father's reaction to heart - I think he's ignorant.

[Minato157]

He is pretty weird as I said. He is educated tho. I don’t know what’s wrong with him and I told him that I’m not rven that good looking.

[pleasestopthis]

You're still very young so just wait until you feel comfortable enough to do it. No one should force you to have sex before you want it.
Maybe your dad has that typical image of how a man should be, a "macho man" who has sex with tons of women from a young age.

[Stoner710]

Because your dad is douche bag question you and I having sex. I have such when you’re ready fuck the pressures do you want to save it till marriage go for it fuck your dad opinion is you’re own life

[CarrieBlossum]

Your dad is a weirdo. Any dad that actively wants his son to have a sex before 18 is kind of a freak

[Minato157]

Yeah he is weird. He has never been this weird tho.

[HiHelloHowdyHiyah]

1. Your cute in my opinion
2. anyone can get laid lol all they have to do is put up the cash.

[Minato157]

Thanks and ew going to a hooker is just so pathetic. I would nevr do that shit.

[HiHelloHowdyHiyah]

Ur still a baby and have plenty of time like gheez ask ur dad can you finish growing ur mustache first

[Minato157]

Wdym?

[HiHelloHowdyHiyah]

I saying to focus on growing up first instead to doing adult things.

[Minato157]

Yeah I’m the one who doesn’t want to bang here and it’s my dad who oressures me to do it. A but of respect would be appreciated. My beard will be growing soon. It’s already growing under my jaw now.

[codycccccccccc]

he's right your showing borderline religious behavior witch needs to nipped in the butt immediately

[Minato157]

I’m not even religious. I have that necklace because I got it as a gift and I think it looks good. I’m just not to keen on banging a girl tho. I know that I should be a horny dog but I’m not. I’m not gonna lie, I do jerk off sometimes but it’s only like once or twice a week.

[codycccccccccc]

You probably have low testosterone

[Minato157]

Yeah but does that matter? What if I’m just not that much into sex?

[Liam_Hayden]

He probably know other men who are bragging about their sons or some other nonsense. He wants to live vicariously through you.

[Snickermarstwix]

Maybe he starts to think you're gay and doesn't want that. I know my dad did.

[WhiteShoulder]

He expects you to be a stud

[Minato157]

But I don’t wanna be one, at least not yet.

[WhiteShoulder]

Then don’t listen to him

[Anonymous]

He wouldn't be saying that to a female lol

[Minato157]

Yeah obviously he wouldn’t. He acts completely different with my 20 year old sister.