Why does he say he respects I’m a virgin but can’t date me?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been communicating since earlier this month. I got my hopes up. I’m 30F and he’s 26M. I’m attractive and then he suddenly asked me if I wanted to go to his place. I told him I don’t do that.
Then he asked me if I have ever slept with a man and I said no.

Then all of a sudden he went cold and said
“I respect your traditional values but I can’t date you. We won’t even be able to be friends maybe just acquainted.”

I felt so hurt… I had gotten my hopes up with him. I even told him and he said coldly “not meant to be.”

Didn’t even give me a chance to say I want to learn new things like deep kissing. He just blew me off.

I feel sad

[PeachyPie93]

Well he probably isn't a good person. He clearly wanted sex, and he knows he probably would have to be your boyfriend and be with you for awhile before you give it to him. He isn't interested in doing that. He probably spends his time having hookups on the regular so he was kind by saving you the time and energy or catching feelings for nothing.

[Meisdipa]

He knew he wasn't going to get lucky and that's the thing he was looking for

[jahaims]

You are sad because a guy turned you down after he found out he can't use you for sex? You should feel relieved if anything

[Anonymous]

I mean most men want sex when they date. Not kissing lol. It says you’re over 30. I mean what exactly are you waiting for?

[Fanfare690]

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