I ASKED HIM to tell me a secret no one knows?

[piinkprincess]

OK so I asked him to tell me a secret that no one knew. and HE told me that he was in love/lust with his best friend and I'm like OK then why aren't you dating her? and he told me that because he believes their friendship is greater than his love for her.

like why the f*** would he tell the girl he wants this ? I don't even get it. and obviously I'm not happy with that

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+1 y

i am not the friend, its some other girl.

ya he did blow it, like when a girl asks a guy for a secret they don't ask for them to tell about their love some some other girl! especially if they want something more with the girl

[Anonymous]

The word f*** clearly tells me your not thinking with your ovaries. He is expressing to you that he's willing to share his most reserved secrets with you. The fact you blew up like this only proves you were a waste of his time, and clearly unable to move beyond petty jealousy and see he is trusting you enough to share conflicting feelings in his head. Feelings are something highly guarded and the deepest most troublesome one's are only shared with those we can trust.

If you were human enough to break up with him I'm glad seeing as you clearly lack the maturity to be with him

[Belgie]

Typical woman. You ask, you get, you get pissed off.

This is why you can't have nice things.

[haijal]

i agree lol

[themastaplan]

women aren't really after the truth, they are after a reason to get pissed off and make the guy seem like a douche bag...in this case - a dark secret that we all know now...its always our (guys) fault right...ALWAYS

[JennyInLove]

I don't think anyone would be happy with a truth that hurts them. what do you expect? Us to jump of joy?

[Paullus]

lol

[aliciaxx]

dont ask if you don't want to hear the answer

[Tesa_Slade]

@themastaplan no

[Anonymous]

yeah, so wait... are YOU the friend? in that case he's obviously telling you he wants you in a way that won't hurt your friendship if you aren't interested. if you feel the same way, you should tell him that.

[JennyInLove]

why are you so certain he wants something more with you? I mean, if he told you that, he's obviously not into you

[piinkprincess]

yea he told me he wanted to be with me. but then he told me that too.

i guess maybe he doesn't want to be with me after all.

[JennyInLove]

well it's stupid of him to tell you that if he already told you he wanted to be with you. I don't think he's worth it. maybe he does want to be with you, but what does it matter if he has already such feelings for his best friend? you deserve more than that

[Tesa_Slade]

Disagree

[enlightenment]

so who is HE? you just said you asked him, but is he your boyfriend, are you dating. Why shouldn't he tell you?

[piinkprincess]

well we are dating. and his best friend that's a girl is the one he told me about.

[Anonymous]

be careful what you wish for you just might get it.

that poor guy he walked right into it too LOL This just goes to show you that men do NOT think like we do. You wanted something to bond the two of you emotionally and he blew it up.

[Anonymous]

It's awkward to be with him now, so I think you might want to leave him. Good luck

[Anonymous]

Just leave him