Why did he ask me to keep it a secret?

[confusedgirl18]

I was hooking up with a guy a couple months ago but we both went away for the summer. Since then, I've become good friends with one of his guy friends (who is casually dating someone). Last night he was in town and we hooked up again but he asked me not to tell the guy friend about it.

I wasn't planning on telling, but why would he want me to keep it a secret? He said his friend would be upset if he found out but I don't understand why?

[cquinonez]

well...i will just be very honest...there are only 2 reasons he would do this...

1. his friend likes you more than a friend and has talked about you to this guy that you hooked up with...or

2. he is embarrassed for his friend to know...one or the other...

my best advise..there are billions of people in the world...why settle for someone who just hooks up with you when he feels like it...and then want to keep it a secret...i do not know all the details of your situation...but usually men will brag about hooking up with a girl...so it has to be one or the other...his friend is interested in you...or he is embarrassed...

i hope this helps! have a great weekend!

[Anonymous]

He probably has a girlfriend that's why he wanted to keep it a secret.