Fristly family is first and important.. You were wrong to not take in ur bro d a1st time. But eventually you did da rite ting... Ur gurl seems to be the prob.. If my boyfriend was in this situation I wuld hav taken him in and love him too whether I like it or not.. Cus if it was me I wuld hav taken in any of my family members without tinking... Luk ur bro was in hurt so much hurt afta ur parents died he needs sum1 to talk to sum1 to luv.. he needs u.. Jus b ther for him you will b better off.. Besides you see ur gurl is cheating you shuld feel like an ass now cus she actually made you not tak in ur bro!
its up to you I can't make decisions for you I can jus advice u.. and that's my advice to u.. Hold onto ur bro at d end of the day only he shuld matter to u!
I would kick her out (politely) if she is going to cheat on you instead of support you then she isn't what's best for you right now.especially if you have been together for two years.and then take the time to get to know your little brother better and have some one on one time.
well it could be that he's angry that his hole world has been turned upside down twice, he may feel like no body wants him.you told him no first and now the foster parents. or it could just be he needs a MAJOR attitude adjustment to get rid of his attitude problem or it could be all of the above. :)
I'm 20 and I have three younger brothers I'm the oldest and I couldn't ever imagine loosing my parents. Family is blood hun and you never turn your back on family. Your brother is 9 you and your girlfreind have been together for 2 years. You have probly watched your brother grow up. Don't you think that your parents would want you to take care of him through hard times tough times happy times sad times.? Right now your brother is still grieving he probly thinks that he's to blame for the accident and that you blame him to and that's why you don't wanna take him in. My oppinion if my parents died tomorrow there would be no doubt in my mind that I would take my three younger brothers in no matter what! Just remember one thing here family has always got your back! You screw that up you got nothing in this world. I really hope that you do decide to take him in He needs you right now! More than ever. Do the right thing!
Probably does have a little to do with you. He's young, he's 'rebelling' in his mind. He's hurt and not feels like he's got nothing to lose and he's going about the wrong direction. But don't blame yourself completely, he made those choices on his own.
you chose your girl over your family? you know the saying.bros before.(not saying the end to that one because its disrespectful to women) but that meaning is just and I don't think you made it any better by hanging up on him.think about it he's only 9 and all he has is you. I think you need to re-think this whole living situation.blood is thicker than water.
Im sorry that's really dumb and FUCKED UP fo sho. I would take my sister over some guy. because you can get another girlfriend you can't get another brother. I wouldn't talk to you either if I was ur brother. you parents were killed and he has no one but you and you pick a girlfriend? that's soo wrong in many def ways.
your a fcking idiot.thats all I have to say.i don't blame him for calling your girlfriend a dumb slut becayse you chose her over him.not cool.you really are an ass and karma is a bitch. you'll get yours.
Family always comes before girlfriends / boyfriends.
I can't believe people would even question over this.
It just makes it ten times worse if your family is a little brother. If your girlfriend doesn't want you to look after your brother, then she's a terrible person.
Similar situation for my cousins, and my cousin is treating his younger sister the same way you`re treating your brother now.
I think you're completely heartless.
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WOW your a wonderful brother no wonder he wouldn't talk to you, hell I wouldn't either, you wouldn't take in your own brother because your girlfriend and you don't like kids, uh dude he's your brother, not random kid off the street. If I was your brother when I got older I would kick your ass and I'm sure that's what he's thinking right now, since you just abandoned him. That's pretty damn low man, I hope you do feel bad that your an idot.
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To be honest I'm not close with my brother at all.
I'm 21 and he's 17 and if I were in your situation I would still absolutely take my little brother in.
Although we don't get along he's my only brother and as far as your girlfriend is concerned she can always be replaced you can't replace your brother.
When he gets older imagine what he's going to think about his life, missing your parents and his relationship with you.
Foster care is mostly for children and kids who don't have anyone in their life, no family, no support system and that is not where he belongs if he has you.
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If this is for real.you sound like that you need help to get your life back on track in order to be there for your little brother. And if this is not for real.this site is for people that would like feed back on issues that are real.not to get a kick out of people's thoughts and concerns.
I wish the best for you either way.get a life if this is a prank or get professional help for yourself.
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DANG THAT IS REALLY SKANDLOUS OF You TO DO THATS UR BLOOD RIGHT THERE WHAT IF THAT WAS U? HOW WOULD FEEL IF You HAD TO LIVE WIT PEOPLE WHO You DONT KNOW IF THE MONEY IS TIGHT THEN ASK THE FOSTER KARE SERVICE PEOPLE IF THEY KAN HELP You WIT MONEY DEN You PROBABLY WONT EVEN HAVE TO WORK
I wouldn't blame him for saying that, I would've said that. He might not ever talk to you again. You have to try and make it up to him or something but I hardly believe he'll let you back into his life. You've lost your little brother bro.
The boy is 9, he wouldn't kick the only family memeber out of his life for good, and you guys didn't even think about how the older brother, the 19 year old is taking it as well, it must have been so stressful having all of this on your shoulders. As long as he takes his brother out of that fosters home all will be forgiven over time
are you f***ing serious? dump the girl and take your brother in ! its doesn't take a rocket scientist, sorry sweetie but friends/bitches/assholes COME AND GO! FAMILY STAYS FOREVER I'm so disapointed I read this article
The kid is 9, with NO parents think about what this could do to him to be rejected by you. You make room for him, and if your Girlfriend can't understand that then drop her ass like a bad habit.
Obviously he's gonna get mad, and say stuff about you on facebook or whatever. you would too if you were in his position . plus what he said was true, you are assholes for doing that, and clearly can not be trusted. I'd do the exact same thing, and what he wrote about you just proves he's really hurt. wow.
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Fristly family is first and important.. You were wrong to not take in ur bro d a1st time. But eventually you did da rite ting... Ur gurl seems to be the prob.. If my boyfriend was in this situation I wuld hav taken him in and love him too whether I like it or not.. Cus if it was me I wuld hav taken in any of my family members without tinking... Luk ur bro was in hurt so much hurt afta ur parents died he needs sum1 to talk to sum1 to luv.. he needs u.. Jus b ther for him you will b better off.. Besides you see ur gurl is cheating you shuld feel like an ass now cus she actually made you not tak in ur bro!
its up to you I can't make decisions for you I can jus advice u.. and that's my advice to u.. Hold onto ur bro at d end of the day only he shuld matter to u!
I would kick her out (politely) if she is going to cheat on you instead of support you then she isn't what's best for you right now.especially if you have been together for two years.and then take the time to get to know your little brother better and have some one on one time.
well it could be that he's angry that his hole world has been turned upside down twice, he may feel like no body wants him.you told him no first and now the foster parents. or it could just be he needs a MAJOR attitude adjustment to get rid of his attitude problem or it could be all of the above. :)
I'm 20 and I have three younger brothers I'm the oldest and I couldn't ever imagine loosing my parents. Family is blood hun and you never turn your back on family. Your brother is 9 you and your girlfreind have been together for 2 years. You have probly watched your brother grow up. Don't you think that your parents would want you to take care of him through hard times tough times happy times sad times.? Right now your brother is still grieving he probly thinks that he's to blame for the accident and that you blame him to and that's why you don't wanna take him in. My oppinion if my parents died tomorrow there would be no doubt in my mind that I would take my three younger brothers in no matter what! Just remember one thing here family has always got your back! You screw that up you got nothing in this world. I really hope that you do decide to take him in He needs you right now! More than ever. Do the right thing!
i wish you the best
Probably does have a little to do with you. He's young, he's 'rebelling' in his mind. He's hurt and not feels like he's got nothing to lose and he's going about the wrong direction. But don't blame yourself completely, he made those choices on his own.
you chose your girl over your family? you know the saying.bros before.(not saying the end to that one because its disrespectful to women) but that meaning is just and I don't think you made it any better by hanging up on him.think about it he's only 9 and all he has is you. I think you need to re-think this whole living situation.blood is thicker than water.
ALL I can can say is that's some saDDD shyt I nerli cried reading this shyt
THATS UR BROTHER FAMILY you don't have ur parents anymore you got him
AS for ur girlfriend bro Bitches come && gOO.
well its so clear that he doesn't have his parents anymore all he has left is you
SO he wants you all to himself && that's not a badd thing
its so obvious he doesn't like ur gf
well she does sound like an up tight BITCH.
Im sorry that's really dumb and FUCKED UP fo sho. I would take my sister over some guy. because you can get another girlfriend you can't get another brother. I wouldn't talk to you either if I was ur brother. you parents were killed and he has no one but you and you pick a girlfriend? that's soo wrong in many def ways.
hey you come on here asking if your
the worst brother ever and you are.
you chose a girl over your brother
i hope he becomes mad rich (and famous if he wants)
and you just go broke so
he doesn't have you take you in
now that I think about it
im glad you aren't taking him in
he doesn't need a bitch
made nigga to rise him anyways
your a fcking idiot.thats all I have to say.i don't blame him for calling your girlfriend a dumb slut becayse you chose her over him.not cool.you really are an ass and karma is a bitch. you'll get yours.
I AGREE
Family always comes before girlfriends / boyfriends.
I can't believe people would even question over this.
It just makes it ten times worse if your family is a little brother. If your girlfriend doesn't want you to look after your brother, then she's a terrible person.
Similar situation for my cousins, and my cousin is treating his younger sister the same way you`re treating your brother now.
I think you're completely heartless.
WOW your a wonderful brother no wonder he wouldn't talk to you, hell I wouldn't either, you wouldn't take in your own brother because your girlfriend and you don't like kids, uh dude he's your brother, not random kid off the street. If I was your brother when I got older I would kick your ass and I'm sure that's what he's thinking right now, since you just abandoned him. That's pretty damn low man, I hope you do feel bad that your an idot.
To be honest I'm not close with my brother at all.
I'm 21 and he's 17 and if I were in your situation I would still absolutely take my little brother in.
Although we don't get along he's my only brother and as far as your girlfriend is concerned she can always be replaced you can't replace your brother.
When he gets older imagine what he's going to think about his life, missing your parents and his relationship with you.
Foster care is mostly for children and kids who don't have anyone in their life, no family, no support system and that is not where he belongs if he has you.
If this is for real.you sound like that you need help to get your life back on track in order to be there for your little brother. And if this is not for real.this site is for people that would like feed back on issues that are real.not to get a kick out of people's thoughts and concerns.
I wish the best for you either way.get a life if this is a prank or get professional help for yourself.
DANG THAT IS REALLY SKANDLOUS OF You TO DO THATS UR BLOOD RIGHT THERE WHAT IF THAT WAS U? HOW WOULD FEEL IF You HAD TO LIVE WIT PEOPLE WHO You DONT KNOW IF THE MONEY IS TIGHT THEN ASK THE FOSTER KARE SERVICE PEOPLE IF THEY KAN HELP You WIT MONEY DEN You PROBABLY WONT EVEN HAVE TO WORK
I wouldn't blame him for saying that, I would've said that. He might not ever talk to you again. You have to try and make it up to him or something but I hardly believe he'll let you back into his life. You've lost your little brother bro.
The boy is 9, he wouldn't kick the only family memeber out of his life for good, and you guys didn't even think about how the older brother, the 19 year old is taking it as well, it must have been so stressful having all of this on your shoulders. As long as he takes his brother out of that fosters home all will be forgiven over time
are you f***ing serious? dump the girl and take your brother in ! its doesn't take a rocket scientist, sorry sweetie but friends/bitches/assholes COME AND GO! FAMILY STAYS FOREVER I'm so disapointed I read this article
Its obvious either A) he is jealous of your girlfriend, he may think that you picked her over him.
or B) he has finally realized your the alpha male and he has decided to follow your lead.at least for now that is. or C) it could be both A and B.
The kid is 9, with NO parents think about what this could do to him to be rejected by you. You make room for him, and if your Girlfriend can't understand that then drop her ass like a bad habit.
You make me SICK.
LMAO, uhhhhhh it has NOTHING to do with you *rolls eyes*.
This has to be fake, no one can be this foolish.
Obviously he's gonna get mad, and say stuff about you on facebook or whatever. you would too if you were in his position . plus what he said was true, you are assholes for doing that, and clearly can not be trusted. I'd do the exact same thing, and what he wrote about you just proves he's really hurt. wow.