Would you ever trust a friend that screenshots your messages and sends it to another friend?

[katrina78]

[phill5158]

No way at all would I trust them, going behind your back like that would make it incredibly hard to trust them again. I believe that trust and honesty are two of the most crucial values you can have in a solid friendship and without those it will be a toxic friendship. I know myself if I had a friend like that I would cut all ties with them because that is not a true friendship.

[katrina78]

Yeah this happened to me three times I wouldn’t trust them again. Recently a old acquaintance took a few screenshots of our conversation once I showed her someone was screenshooting her conversation told her what they were saying she took a few screenshots asking is this true? The other two gossiped about me, spoke Behind my back. I cut of contact with all of them 3.

[phill5158]

Yeah that really sucks, sorry it happened to you but you definitely did the right thing cutting contact with all 3 of them. I hope you have friends now that are trustworthy and honest with you.

[katrina78]

I found some trust worthy and honest friends to talk too online that I know in real life just I don’t gets see them as much.

[phill5158]

Yeah I so get that I have as well but in my case they live interstate so it's harder to meet them.

[katrina78]

Oh that’s true. I meet some new friends though my partner that are loyal also

[phill5158]

That is great

[wheist9095]

Hell no. If I tell something to somebody, it's supposed to be between me and them. If you talk to somebody and they're spreading everything you say around they're not worth talking to

[katrina78]

I agree on that this happened to me last year this happened to me again recently I told the person their friends were talking about her she asked is this true took a few screenshots on Snapchat do u think I can trust them cause I think their more of a acquaintance cause I never see them or never speak to them on the phone they hang with people I don’t like.

[wheist9095]

If they took a screenshot on Snapchat, they obviously know that you can see that they took a screenshot. Don't try and force a friendship, if they're being shitty let them go, It's just not worth the effort. And if they're hanging out with people you already don't like, it just sounds like it's going to keep getting worse.

[katrina78]

That’s true. I unadded her of my social media

[Lexa2000]

It depends on what we are talking about and why she is doing it. If it's just us joking around... I wouldn't really care. But if we were talking about something serious and it was me opening up to her and she went and told everyone then I would start to lose my trust with her.

[Siren777]

No. Not at all. As i like my privacy, if a friend cannot respect you. Then that is not your friend.

[daisySykoSykes]

I think it would depend on your relationship with both your friend and that other friend. Nonetheless you wanted that to be between you two because if you wanted it to be with the 3 of you, you would have made it a group chat. I mean its one thing for you to share but for them to share your conversation is a bit messed up. Then again, Im guilty of sharing messages between my then significant other and i. I would send messages to my best friend when he brought up a break. Which i mean might be bad but i needed someone to see what was going on. So i think it all depends. In regards to your situation, i think it is messed up because it seems like they sent it to a mutual friend of yours.

[Iron_Man]

No I don’t like that at all so women do that on here and I hate it. Can’t trust them Even if they’re doing it to somebody else and show me

[Iron_Man]

Some women

[Iron_Man]

I don’t like that copy and paste stuff

[katrina78]

Yeah some women do it to me who were my old friends. One of them asked why I blocked the person told that person straight away with a screenshot. Than recently a acquaintance screenshot mine and her conversation on Snapchat when I told her friends were talking about her. She hung out with 4 people I dislike never really hung out with me so I thought to unadd she never bullied me.

[Iron_Man]

You need to get some brand new friends for sure

[katrina78]

That’s true I made a new friend two months ago. I will meet new people when I study childcare in July.

[Iron_Man]

Nice

[DragonXR]

Can't trust a person like that in private conversations.

[TallAnon]

Depends what kind of message and what kind of reason.

[user2345354]

Who is this other friend? If it's a lawyer, hell no.

[katrina78]

This has happened to me a few times. When I was opening up to someone seriously they took a screenshot of mine and their conversation I don’t know if they shared our conversations around. The other two were gossiping about me sharing conversations around. So I got rid of them, cause I don’t trust them.

[SirJohn42]

Well Id ask why first. Then tell her not to screen shot them withouty permission. If it happens again won't talk to her again.

[Darknut]

There needs to be a way that a post can't screenshotted or saved or taken picture of from another device (scramble it)

[MannMitAntworten]

I would not care. Nothing I write in text is anything ever salacious or whatever. .

[boggboss]

Depends on the context of why they are doing it

[AmeerX]

I don't trust people. I am naturally suspicious

[sheikalana]

Nope. That's not a friend to me.

[katrina78]

I agree. It isn’t a friend to me either

[RenegadeSailor]

That is how you become an ex friend. That is bs!

[katrina78]

My old friend did it to me recently my two old acquaintances did to me were gossiping about me can’t trust people who do that.

[worldscolide]

That friend would no longer be my friend.

[Godawfulwasteofspace]

Only if it's you babe :)

[msc545]

no, I would never trust them.

[Anastasia97]

I wouldn’t I’d set her up to.

[DaughterOfLilith]

Nope.

[MarkyMark77]

@daughteroflilith thanks for the follow :) did u get my message?

[imfreeze95]

Hell non

[krose2513]

Nope.

[duygusuzkiz]

No...

[Newguy247]

Nope

[phoebe245]

Nope not at all

[Skankhunt]

Nope

[JessieBellll]

NO
Huge problem

[Rob17792]

nope