I know it's not my fault but why does he always make it feel like it is?

Wht1234
I know I've been in a serious toxic relationship but I'm stuck and I'm hurt. My friends are fed up with me because I keep going back. This time I planned a whole night for his bday on Saturday. He made me think we had plans and even said what he wanted for dinner for reservations. He completely stood me up and ignored my calls/texts until late that night he called and had been drinking with friends. I said I was done and had nothing to say. Next morning on his actually bday text that I ruined his whole bday and blocked me. I did nothing but plan a whole night for us and he was a no show. If I woulda picked my friends over him he would have lost it completely. Am I wrong?
I know it's not my fault but why does he always make it feel like it is?
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