I’m the black sheep and family makes me feel invisible?

[Anonymous]

I’m the black sheep in a family of 6. We’re 4 girls and I happen to be the prettiest, more confident and the only one with a boyfriend. Mother is narcissistic too and they covertly try to put me down and then text each other under the table and then laugh and make it clear that it’s about me etc. There are many instances like that, where they make me feel left out etc. Every time that I distance myself and feel good they beg until they’re back in my life and it goes on and on etc. Now I’m ready to NEVER let them back in my life. Do you think it’s justified and I’m absolutely making the right decision now?

[nanadua11]

You need to leave that place ASAP, i wish this app had a bold text, ASAP in bold text. They envy you, that's why they're doing all that.

[Asker]

Thank you. I now finally made the first step in distancing myself yet again and I feel GREAT. It’s unbelievable how much my mental state is already improving and it’s only been a day. I suspect it’s because I listened to that little gut of mine and I feel proud.

[boggboss]

I think your a idiot for not doing it already

[Asker]

You think that it’s way overdue for me to cut ties?

[boggboss]

Without a doubt I get they are family but all they are doing is taking away from your life

[Asker]

Yes they are making me miserable and it’s affecting every aspect of my life. You think that I should not feel regret for doing it?

[boggboss]

Nope not at all

[Asker]

You’re correct. Thank you 🥰