My family is small, just my 3 kids, my mother and I, we are all we got. I lost my home through foreclosure and was homeless for three weeks, sleeping in my car. My mother would not let me stay in her house but took my kids in. My mom had surgery and I took care of her when she was down and out. When she had surgery she did not want me present, one of her friends went with her instead. My mom had to have a blood transfusion after her surgery. She put me through hell. She would get on the phone and tell stories on me telling people I was giving her hot water to drink and all kinds of other lies while I was tending to her. My mom even turned my kids against me. I had a bad ear infection and my daughter would not take me to the doctor instead my mother had my daughter to take her out to eat and I had to drive myself to the doctor with a terrible ear infection.
My mom is now in rehab because she lost feelings in her legs. I do not understand how a mother could treat their daughter so badly. I have three girls and would never treat them how my mother did me. I use to visit her in the rehab until the staff there started watching me like a hawk. There is no telling what lies she told the people there. My mother did not get this way until my dad died a few years ago. After my dad died she got money and made some new friends and she changed completely. I get blamed for every bad thing that happens in the family. I love my mother but she act like she can not stand me. If it come between her fiends and I would she leave me out in the cold and she did. I am the black sheep and do not understand how I became the black sheep.
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Damn girl, that's so messed up that your own mom is treating you like that. It's crazy how much she's turned against you, especially when you've been there trying to take care of her. The way she's been lying about you and turning your kids against you is just straight-up cruel.
I can totally see why you feel like the black sheep of the family. It's not fair at all that you're getting blamed for everything and being shut out, especially when you've done nothing wrong. The fact that she chose her friends over you when you really needed her support is just heartbreaking.
I'm so sorry you had to go through being homeless and dealing with that awful ear infection on your own. You clearly stepped up big time to be there for your mom during her surgery, and she just stabbed you in the back. That's the kind of messed up, toxic behavior that can really mess with your head and make you question everything.
It sounds like your mom's whole personality did a complete 180 after your dad passed and she came into some money. That probably played a big role in her turning on you like this. Suddenly having that new social circle and financial security may have made her feel like she didn't need you anymore. And now she's using you as a scapegoat to keep up appearances with her new friends.
But you can't let her make you feel less than. You've been there for her and your family, and that's what really counts. The black sheep label is her problem, not yours. Keep your head up, don't internalize her crap, and focus on the people who truly appreciate you. You've got this, girl!
I've had 2 or 3 relatives go through knee surgery. They all said some crazy shit after there surgery just FYI
Gotta leave the wicked behind. You and me
Because they’re the black sheep