Why do I hate people borrow or use my stuff?

Anonymous
So, I live in boarding house, I have 7 friends who go to college with me and we're in the same floor. My boarding house have 3 floors, and each floor only have 1 kitchen. I have kitchen stuff and my friends have it too. But, one of my friends always use my pan without my permission and I don't like it. She say that she okay if someone use her stuff but honestly I don't, I don't like it when she use my pan or my bowl or my plate cuz I also never use her stuff. I'm not comfortable with this. I really don't get it, why is she always use my stuff when actually she have the whole stuff. Also, when she borrow my stuff, she never give it back to me or my stuff will gone. This is the reason why I don't like borrow my things to her because I know that she never give it back to me after she borrow it.

Is this normal if I don't feel comfortable when she use my stuff? Or maybe I am just selfish and stingy?

Are there's any of you feel something like this too?
Why do I hate people borrow or use my stuff?
Why do I hate people borrow or use my stuff?
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