How can you deal with jealous girls?

[Anonymous]

There’s this girl in my Spanish class she hated me since day one. She always makes smart ass remarks towards me and she doesn’t even know me! Like everytime I ask the teacher a question pertaining just to me or about the school she has some smart ass shit to say or she’ll suck her teeth. And every time I talk to her guy friends, she’ll make faces at me and every time I laugh with them she’ll laugh at me or text something rude to them. Then they also become rude towards me as well. I honestly don’t know what I did wrong to anyone.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Some people are cruel for no reason! She has a lot of growing up to do.. wants to destroy you so she can make herself look good but people see through that act.. keep being you and try making a positive spin to what she says or turn it into more of an insult to her.. example if she says you eat enough to feed a whole family laugh and say well at least its not like the country's worth of food you eat.. sometimes to get it to stop you have to play their game.. trust me on this when she knows it doesn't bother you or upset you she will find a new target.. it will escalate her but she won't be expecting it! When she wonders why you changed say I know I am not everyone's cup of tea but at least I treat everyone with respect.. teachers parents do nothing about it if they do it makes matters worse.. if she goes tattletales on you have a list of things she said dates and times.. so you can say of course you dont believe or think what you said about her you just had to shut her up. Make her look like a fool at her own game.. look up good come backs.. hope this helps!

[PeacefulRainDrop]

You laughing at yourself takes away her fun! Like if she does her teeth sticking out.. do the same thing and pretend to be bugs bunny and say her doc you got a carrot at her.. she will be taken back... her bullying will get less and less cause people will laugh at your comment to her make her feel ashamed.. also being extremely kind to her.. like when she says I hate your guts say aww im sooo touched I love you too!

I was bullied in junior high.. high school my worst bully was trying to be my friend.. I told her to fuck off.. she ruined all chances of a friendship when she bullied me.. she was actually getting bullied.. we had no classes together thank God! I just turned a blind eye to it.. thought it served her right.. she said my name once to help her someone took her hat holding it above her head what she use to do to me then fill it with snow and put it on my head.. I kept walking pretending I didn't know her.. what goes around comes around she picked on the wrong person..

[PeacefulRainDrop]

One time when I saw someone take her lunch tray after she just bought it and dump it in the garbage she ran out of the lunch room crying.. I did go to the bathroom brought two things of my packed lunch for her to eat.. I just said Melissa you in here she said whose asking? I said I saw them throw your lunch in the garbage im sorry here's some of mine. And left she was smiling and there was a PA announcement saying there's a money reward for whoever gave away some of there lunch today.. I didn't come forward there was a line up of people claiming to be me.. I didn't want a reward or to be her friend ever just thought she was getting worse than me.. I just kept my sandwich.. then there was another announcement the recipients wants to say thank you she knows you never came forward. It made her bullying stop and I didn't have to pretend to be her friend.. I dont like most people.. I just know as people get older that shit stops.. think honestly bullies who abuse others are getting abused at home.. in her case it was her father.

[JustAnj]

You have two options, you can ask her if she is okay, if something has been bothering her. (Don't involve yourself as the issue) if she is straight she will tell you you bother her then you can ask her why. If she isn't straight she will ask you why. In which you can respond, "Well I just noticed you seem to be really upset about something and I just wanted to check up on you."

Or

Second option,

Ignore her and how she is towards you. Treat her no different then you treat anyone, you didn't do anything wrong, if you did it's up to her to communicate the issue instead of holding it against you and still it makes it her issue. She has a problem with whatever she is dealing with internally and you might remind her of that.

The end point is you just do you and leave it as is, if you prefer not to involve yourself in her personal issues she is having internally. Your not the problem she just has a problem, could have chose to project that to anyone honestly you just happened to be the focus.

[zagor]

Unfortunately many people, especially in their teen years, deal with their own issues by trying to bring down others. I would avoid her where possible. If she does this when you ask the teacher a question the teacher should get on her about it.

[zagor]

Though there are some teachers who are so concerned about trying to be cool and liked that they won't address this kind of issue. Or may just be oblivious.

[TwinkleLily5]

She’s a hater. Don’t let what she does affect you or at least try not to let it show. The best revenge is being happy and not reacting negative to her remarks. If you show her she’s not stopping you from doing anything she’ll get tired because she can no longer get the reaction she wants from you. I’m going through the same thing right now and I’m an adult.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d hust say “Im going to pray for you because envy is not the answer.” And if she says “what an u envious of?” I’d say, “more like what are you not envious of?” Then if she persisted to argue, i’d keep responding “Jesus take the wheel. Because that girl is gonna drive herself off a cliff.”

[DizzyDesii]

Damn a bunch of typos. Lemme rewrite
I’d just say “Im going to pray for you because envy is not the answer.” And if she says “what am i to be envious of?” I’d say, “more like what are you not envious of?” Then if she persisted to argue, i’d keep responding “Jesus take the wheel. Because that girl is gonna drive herself off a cliff.”

[DizzyDesii]

Or you could always say “Did your mother not love you enough?” But double check to make sure her moms alive and well first

[karaspara]

You are a better person than me fr

[DizzyDesii]

@karaspara lol what would u do

[karaspara]

@DizzyDesii I'd be fighting

[DizzyDesii]

@karaspara lmao i’d only fight if she swings first

[karaspara]

@DizzyDesii she would once i'd destroyed her verbally in front of the people she was so desperate to impress lol

[DizzyDesii]

@karaspara lmao savage

[NightFlirt]

She's just jealous of you. The best thing you can do is laugh her comments off and simply ignore her.

[YollyM]

Try and talk to her and see if you've ever wronged her by speaking badly about her or to her. She'll let you know if you're the one who has wronged her and she'll ignore the question if it's just jealous🤷

[Subarugirl]

Ignore her, like just straight up pretend she doesn't exist. If you don't react or respond to what she does she will get board and move on.

[aqua0101]

She might be jealous of you. Don't let her behavior affect your self esteem , because that is what she wants.

[kyleelyn199723]

Ignore her and focus on school work.

[GurlPwr]

Be so overly fake kind towards her that she can’t stand you anymore. If she snitches on you to the teacher, you can just say you were being nice.

[hannahjo022]

Ignore her and let her be.

[LemiaOfChampions]

Ignore them, most girls are jelious of something

[karaspara]

Kick the crap out of her

[Rawkman]

😂😂🤣🤣

[Joker_]

Use them to boost your ego

[Danny_dan92]

Ignore them

[Iron_Man]

They are annoying