Are kids really a big responsibility?

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Or it’s overstated

ohshee · Accepted Answer

For me I really didn't have anybody in my life growing up and I felt there's no way in this world I'd want my kids to go through that my goal was to make my kids way better than me. I did not care what it took I did not care about anything except for that goal I made sure that my son got to do anything and everything that he wanted to do and if you wanted to experience growing up I raised him I never had to raise my voice I never disciplined are restricted him from being a kid bottom line is I didn't make it all about me if you did something wrong I would say pssst with my first finger motion come here he would say yes dad and I would say is that property yours no he would say I would say okay well then you have to respect it what happens if you broke it do you have the money to to fix it or reimburse the people that own it no he would say that's okay well think before you do respect other people's property go have fun. He was to the point it was quick and he understood it he had to have good clothes good shoes biggest thing about raising kids is you have to understand the parent is their God they love their parents if your kid sees you on the telephone talking to one of your friends gossiping how can you about things you shouldn't be talking about that's what they learn when you're talking to your friends over at the house no matter what you say what kind of body language you use that's what they learn if they do something wrong and you yell and scream and throw a tantrum tantrum that's what they learn they learn if you want something you have to yell and scream to get it your responsibility is to make them become the best they can become without then knowing that's what you're doing no matter what you be honest you never lie you never cheat you never act like a big shot in Bragg you keep your calm at all times no matter what's going on because that's what they learn all you can do is set the foundation for them with that strong Foundation they were Building Stone House it's a very big responsibility who do you want your child to be I wanted mine to be better than me and I succeeded 6 ft 7 big and buff a good looking kid he's a fireman paramedic

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

It's heavily understated.

it's such a big responsibility, that everything important to you has to be put on hold until your child succeeds at life and becomes a self sufficient, healthy adult.

Meanwhile, you also get the pleasure of not enough sleep, replacing things frequently, losing irreplacable things, hemorrhaging money for their food, toys, tech, college, etc. having almost no free time to do what you want or hang out with who you want, and a literal buttload of absolutely horrid smells.

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

Thats a human being you're responsible for developing and caring for, a MINIMUM of 18 years depending on what kind of parent you try to be.
They're a fucking huge responsibility. And too many folks who should be sterilised pop them out with no regard instead.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

One may not be bad, but my sister has 3 boys under 10, and they are a hand full. So yes, I'd say they are definitely a responsibility and kids are not for everyone. But you will have someone to take care of you in old age and won	 ever feel alone.

SunnySensei · Answer

I think they are a big responsibility Miss, when you have kids you are responsible for taking care of another life not just yours and in the younger years of their life they can't make all the right decisions so shaping there future also comes in your hand.
So it is a big responsibility

casserolie · Answer

uh yeah. you get no sleep for a long time, have to change their diaper and feed them manually cause human babies are helpless creatures, and they are extremely fragile so dropping them could just kill them completely. and they live longer than birds.

jgibsonian1986 · Answer

Your children will try as hard as they can to do everything you do and be everything you are. If your someone who is a bad example thsn having kids is not a good idea.

t-8900 · Answer

They're my life's purpose. When I have them that's where all my time and energy is going. My wife and kids. The rest of the world is just a background.

TrueConfection · Answer

HUGE Kids are the biggest responsibility of your life.

Interstate · Answer

From the time they are born 'til the time they turn 18, they are CONSTANTLY dependent on you in one form or another. They need fed, clothed and CONSTANT loving Parental guidance.

musicloverr8 · Answer

Yes it appears to be a lot of work my sister recently had a baby and it takes a lot of work a lot of time and a lot of sleepless nights I would not suggest having a child until you are ready both financially and at a good point in your life

Apple1996 · Answer

Yes they are a big responsibility especially as they get older and you have to teach them how to be independent. It's easy when they are little but once they hit maybe 5 everything gets crazy.

exitseven · Answer

If it is done right they are a huge responsibility. If you are not ready to give up pretty much your whole life you should not have kids.

ScoobyNECBir · Answer

I mean yeah? Obviously. It’s your responsibility to bring them up. It’s your responsibility to ensure they have the best up bringing they can.

firaskr · Answer

It is good responsibility but it depends on what method you use so it can be nice or to big to handle

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes they are. each stage of frowning up brings its own challenges. different concerns for each gender.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends. Do you want them to choose a good care home for you, or smother you with a pillow in your old age?

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, and the most important one in my life, also the most rewarding

YAhallo · Answer

Yes it's a big responsibility but it's hard for those selfish looser who couldn't learn raising a child because they are adopted to the life where sex is everything

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If you intend to be a good patent and have successful kids than being a parent is an enormous responsibility.

Or you can just let the government raise your chilluns' and go back to twerking on TikThot.

Jayplays900 · Answer

It's a heavy responsibility, and it's the reason why the population growth is slopping nowadays. The United States has recorded a heavy slowing in population growth, and Japan is about to have a population crisis.

Cherry234 · Answer

Yeah it is. It's a financial obligation and you have to make a lot of sacrifices

Iryss · Answer

Your life pretty much ends when the baby’s begins. Enjoy things while they last before having kids.

DaveToo · Answer

If you choose to have a child, then you are responsible for that child until they become a self-sufficient adult. You never lose that responsibility.

jasco · Answer

It's a big responsibility if you don't know what your doing. It gets slightly easier as you have more and if your able to, your kids that aren't quite ground can help you to. So yea

HighValue · Answer

Kids are easy to take care of if you have good organizational and time management skills.

PinkPeach · Answer

Kids are the biggest responsibility of your life.

Andres77 · Answer

Being a good parent is the biggest responsibility anyone could possibly have in this life. And it's the biggest blessing you could have too.

Fireguy17 · Answer

more than you can imagine! They are life changing.

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

If you intend to be a good parent and have successful children then being a parent is a responsibility that is life changing.

MountAverage · Answer

How is it anything but a huge responsibility? There's hardly a bigger one a person can have.

Not_a_baddie · Answer

Yes they're! One of the primary reasons i am never having kids

Deserter · Answer

I can't imagine they're as expensive asparents make them out to be. They cost a lot less than adult

noohair · Answer

To care for, comfort and raise a human is the largest responsibility that an ordinary person can have.

Jem38 · Answer

I have no kids yet but , Yes. It is a big responsibility.

seer09 · Answer

Your life will change completely. I am saying this from experience.

OddBeMe · Answer

No quite understated actually. People think it’s easy and now child abuse is rampant

Year3000 · Answer

It should be but a lot of deadbeats are in the community.

Anonymous · Answer

It is an extremely huge responsibility when having kids.

normalice · Answer

In many ways kids are the only responsibility.

alleon · Answer

Hardest job a person can have. Seriously.

katiesmuff · Answer

It's a huge responsibility

serious · Answer

Yes of course they are.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Yes it is a large responsibility

Slayerrrrrrr · Answer

have one and find out.

AntiChrist66666 · Answer

yes it is like dog but more

Hanrej · Answer

It can't be overstated, trust me.

Archerer · Answer

Yes, huge... probably the biggest in your life

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes... very much a big responsibility.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

More like understated.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Is this a joke? It has to be.

REDHOTLINE · Answer

Of course. Big and big responsibility.

888theGreat · Answer

I don't think you could handle it

Waldoe · Answer

Huge... responsibility

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Yes huge shape the adult they become

veru08 · Answer

I Think It's Holy Yes 🙂😇😅

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Huge!!!

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yes, they are

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes of course

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Ask your parents.

JennieF · Answer

Yeah.

Fuentes · Answer

Yes they are

Sketti2021 · Answer

Um yes they are

EaterPeter · Answer

Not overstated

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