Girls, would you ever ask a male cousin for a foot massage? Recently at a wedding reception my cousin asked if I would rub her feet. I did massage?

[Anonymous]

Them but it felt weird. It's not that she's gross, lol, she's actually very pretty but her feet were warm and sweaty and it just felt to intimate for two cousins. Now she has been hitting me up on social media asking when it "can happen again". Maybe she's kidding but what are your thoughts on a cousin asking for a foot massage? And was I wrong to give her one.

[MsTaniaUncensored]

uhhh... this probably is not a good road to continue down. It seems like it is getting out of hand and highly inappropriate. Now is a good time to stop it from going any further. Remember that incest is against the law in many places so there is also that to consider.

[Asker]

Thanks for a reply. I'm not concerned about having a relationship with her. In my mind it's done. I'm wondering if I should feel guilty for saying yes when she asked? To me it did cross a line that I didn't see before I started giving her the massage but to her it didn't seem to cross a line. Do you think it was appropriate for her to ask for a massage? And like I said I think my family found it weird also.

[MsTaniaUncensored]

I think you are good, it was a momentary lapse in judgment and just a foot rub so you didn't cross the line too badly. Just don't let it progress. It may be time to set boundaries with her and tell her that it probably isn't appropriate.

[karaspara]

I wouldn't

[Asker]

Do you consider a foot massage to intimate? I really didn't until I started rubbing them and thought "this is weird." But she didn't seem to have a problem with it and like I said, she asked for it.

[karaspara]

It doesn't have to be intimate but entering dodgy territory in my opinion

[Asker]

Yes. I guess I feel guilty for doing it. My brother even made a comment about it being strange which made me even more self concious because the whole family was there. In my defense though, I had been drinking. Lol.