How can I help my girlfriend?

[Musicstar1985]

My girlfriend is having our first baby in May she has a son from her previous marriage he's 10. His dad was my bestfriend so I'm like a godfather to him I'm excited to have kids of my own but I'm also a little scared. Is it ok to be scared? How can I help her?

[EvanPearson727]

Just make sure you can pay all the bills and cover the costs of formula, diapers, breast pump, baby clothes, car seats, stroller, bassinet, baby bottles, digital thermometer etc.
Try to be there for her every step of the way in the hospital and once you bring your baby home.
You might not get much sleep for a while right after the baby's born so rest up now, lol.
The main thing is that she's gonna be exhausted and you need to be strong for her and patient and loving. Congratulations. 🙂

[loves2learn]

It is 100% ok and normal to be scared. Have patience with her, cook her meals (that sound good to her), remind her how beautiful she is and how much you love her and the baby. Rub her back, buy her a pregnancy massage, go to appointments and classes with her whenever possible. I love that you want to help her. I wish you all the best. 😊

[Staximus]

Was your best friend? Did he die?

[Iron_Man]

Ask her what she needs and do
it

[In_Trance]

What does she need help with?