How do I help this girl?

Anonymous
I'll try to make this as short and sweet as possible, but there's a lot to take in. (Some thoughtful responses are appreciated, and if you need more detail or context, please ask)

I'll preface by saying I have some serious issues myself, with my love of 7 years killing herself and all, but that's only slightly relevant to the story.

So this girl is 22 years old, and she's been in 2 relationships with 2 terrible men. One who used her and stole from her to support his drug habit, and one who beat her and raped her for a good 2 years. (That's a lot of 2's lol)

She's been to therapy for the main course of the trauma, but now she's having trouble being able to move into a new relationship and learn to love again. Or learn to love at all for that matter. I don't think she's ever really been in love.

She's trying her absolute best with me, but clearly has no idea how to be in a real loving relationship. She gets hurt really easy, overthinks things, and keeps telling me she's in love with me, when clearly that's not the case.
It's almost kind of cute watching her try to figure this out.
She said "I love you" before we even went on a real date lol.

She's a really cool girl and I care about her, so she's worth the trouble I'll have to go through to help her learn how this is all supposed to work.
My problem is, I have no idea where to start. I'm not a love coach and I've only ever had one true love in my entire life. I have no idea how to help her.


(And please don't say she's not my problem. I've already decided that she is)
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Funny how an AI gave a better answer than the dumb miserable losers on this app. I knew you were all too lame brained and dull to give a thoughtful answer. Coming here was a mistake. Fuck all of you Fucking morons
How do I help this girl?
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