My “friend” gets with my crushes and rubs it in my face?

[Anonymous]

She does this to every guy I like when’s he finds out I like them :( why? she pursues them even if she doesn’t know them personally, gets with them, bangs them and then rubs it in my face. She shows me their text convos or goes “I know you like him but he got with me. I just won’t bring him around you.”

[Faerum]

Sounds like a bad friend and group of friends for letting this happen. Bring this up with your friend group and if they aren’t supportive… find one that actually cares about you.

[Asker]

I have and they’re supportive of me, but they said they “don’t want to pick sides.” So they’re still hanging out with her when they hang out with me. And they said they don’t wanna speak about her behind her back :(

[Faerum]

Isn’t this strictly against “the girl code”? It is for guys. If they aren’t on your side for this… they picked a side.
The longer this goes on the worse it will get, the fact that you’re on this forum as an ANON after talking to your friend group means you feel like you don’t have anywhere to go and you already know the decision you have to make..

[Asker]

Yes it is. In fact, fake friend has been going to all our other friends trying to play victim when I told them. She always does this, saying I’m overreacting. You really have a point, thank you. I feel backed into a corner and bullied by her

[Leonharted]

If I had to guess, she's jealous about something regarding you, and is doing this to make herself feel better.

Some friend, by the way.

[Msputiton]

It's not important why she does it.
The real question is why would you stay friends with her?
She obviously doesn't respect you

[melanieeeB]

She is not a true friend and you should probably stop seeing her

[Asker]

I know, but she’s in my main friend group

[melanieeeB]

Well then don't tell her about your crushes and keep a distant to her

[Asker]

I don’t tell her most of them but she finds them anyway through social media or our other friends

[Anonymous]

she’s a bully and extremely jealous of you. I assume you’re much prettier than her or something and she feels inferior. The question is Why are you allowing it? Why would you keep a friend like that

[Asker]

Because she’s in my group of friends

[Opinion Owner]

Your other friends should support you if they know what she’s doing to you, it wouldn’t take a genius to know she’s in the wrong here

[Opinion Owner]

If they don’t get rid of the whole friend group

[Asker]

Yes but she has managed to convince (some) of them that I’m in the wrong, she’s a very manipulative person

[Opinion Owner]

They’re not your real friends if they don’t explicitly take ur side in this

[Wise4myage]

She is not a friend, and you need to end that friendship.

[boggboss]

Lol if this is your friend what do your enemies do

[Asker]

I don’t have enemies 😂 I guess she’s an enemy though

[boggboss]

But why would you keep a person like this as your friend

[Asker]

Because she’s in my group of friends

[boggboss]

So call her out on her behaviour or just distance yourself from her only be polite to her

[Asker]

I have called her out and she denied doing anything wrong

[boggboss]

Then no longer talk to her about guys u like distance her from your personal life

[LZPanzer]

Sounds like a bad friend.

[jahaims]

So you are mad that she out whores you?

[goldfleur]

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