All my friends are prettier than me?

[Anonymous]

Im overweight, have bad skin & honestly barely do my makeup & im super laid back & dont always dress up or do my hair all the time either. Anyways I've nktoced that like 80% of my friends / people that befriend me are the complete opposite. Theyre all into fitness, their looks, skinny, go the salon etc etc.. And when I'm with them I'm inspired to do the same and be a better version of myself but I guess I just feel like always like all is the odd one out. U intentionelt

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

What’s your question? Do you want our advice?


Here’s the thing, you mention a ‘problem’ that you face - being the odd one out because you don’t do the same things your friends do, but do you truly want to? If you want to ‘fit in’ and not be the odd one out anymore, you need to put in effort to do so.


After all, why bother change yourself if you’re comfortable, but only you can change yourself if you truly want to. Do you value your comfortability or fitting in more?

[JanJan3838]

I was the same, my best friend was always so skinny and perfect, but it sounds like you are a great person to be around. And that something they don’t get from others. Just be who you are and if you wanna change you will, but remember they like you for you.

[In_Trance]

So, are you venting or do you have a question?

[Anonymous]

So, are you venting or do you have a question?

[Opinion Owner]

everyone should copy and paste this response