Im much closer to my dad then to my mom. He has always been there for me. For the first 10 years of my life he was the main person that took care of me. He had a night job and spent the day caring for me instead of sleeping. So it's probably that we started out having a strong bond and it just stayed that way.
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My relationship with my dad is great, he is amazing. We're not as close as we used to be but when I was a child I was daddy's girl for sure. This good relationship with my dad definitely kept me grounded as I navigated through life in this leftist and toxic world that generally looks down on men. Otherwise who knows where I'd be right now :D That being said, I find there's not many men who can match up to my dad... seriously, he's awesome. It's sometimes hard not to compare. Not only a great dad, but such a comforting presence in the house, can fix anything, is knowledgeable, strong etc
Two of my closest friends grew up without a father and it has a serious effect on them.
One of them, whose father didn't care for her after he left her mom, didn't respect men and liked to humiliate them. She was often unnecessarily cruel to her boyfriends even though they really loved her... in the end she found happiness but I'm sure it was a difficult journey for her and this guy went through a lot for her. Now their relationship is completely different to how it started but it was definitely an emotional baggage she had to work through. She's lucky she's hot and charismatic because otherwise people wouldn't put up with her attitude :D But not every girl is like that!
The other one lost her father to suicide at 9 and she's a completely different case. She really likes the company of men (not sleeping around!), is very focused on finding a partner and when she does, she's not willing or able to talk about difficult topics that could reveal potential problems. She's subservient towards them - with no declaration or commitment from them she'd cook, pack their lunch, clean, wash their clothes etc like they're married. And completely lose her mind and disregard her friends for his sake... in the end, the guys don't respect such a girl, end up using her and despite all the effort she puts she ends up with a broken heart.
Having a good father is critical for any child! I feel bad for my friends but at the same time I'm grateful for knowing them and seeing how their lives were affected because I'm a lot more critical of men I date now with the perspective of having children in the future. Lol when I was a teenager I seriously thought of having a sperm bank baby so no man would tell me what to do with my own child XD But I was a stupid kid myself :)My relationship with my dad is great. My biological father is passed away and I never knew him/he never knew me.
He’s not a very affectionate person, he never was, but he’s a good dad and has always been present in my life, even if he wasn’t emotionally available. He’s a hardworking guy, and he does everything for the family. He wants my sister and I to do good in life, he wants us to be successful adults.Well I was always scared of him. Maybe I was/am a sensitive child and person but honestly thats just the way it was. I dont really personally remember a time period where I wasn't just scared of him. Whether he was being abusive in a certain moment or not had no bearing on my fear. I was basically selectively mute all the way even into my teens. I don't know him now. I escaped abusive parents. But yeah... I am a quiet girl anyway but I was selectively mute with him and if i saw him today I would likely still be mute. Gonna post anonymously cause its kind of a private thing to admit but hopefully this info helps you or someone.
It's okay. Like normal lol.
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