Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid. Agree or disagree?

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Something i saw someone say on a youtube video once... you agree?

The_Shadow_Dweller · Accepted Answer

Every kid deserves both the parents and not only one parent. The reason being, the mindset, the way of thinking. A woman thinks differently as compared to a man and vice versa. When the child is in early stages of its brain development (not physically, but by values, by points of view regarding things and all), the child gets to learn both the bits of knowledge, gets both the views and, based on that is able to form its own decision.

If a child has one parent, it is very likely that the child is judging the world, seeing the world in a biased way. Which is not good, but sadly there are a lot of single parents now.

Those without any kind of option, is fine. But those just for the sake of it, not fine. Here self entitlement is the problem then and the child is suffering because of it.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Yeah fairly strongly.

Some people should never ever be allowed kids.

the types range from those who cannot raise kids due to being narcissistic arseholes, to seeing them as something to give them child support, where the child is just a hinderance, to the types who are so homophobic they would kick their kids out of the house for not being straight. Tbh the list goes on.

Every Childs matters though, every child deserves a chance in life, how we are raised, how we interact with our kids really does have a huge impact on them.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Definitely agree, I hate it when someone who knows they shouldn't or can't afford a kid tried to and miserably fails at raising it. Rather than give them up at birth to a long list of waiting parents who have money, as it costs a lot to adopt. They try their best and eventually have the child taken away or give it up later.

Now the poor child is stuck in foster care, cause while the list is years long for new borns, very few want to adopt a older child with issues.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. Some people are despicable. They emotionally are physically hurt their children. Being neglectful isn't any better either. I was seriously abused by my own mother and I swear I prayed often to be removed from her home... Thankfully my father came to my rescue and took me away.

menina · Answer

I strongly agree with this sentence! I have many examples around me of parents who don't deserve kids. I feel sorry for them. They will never be loved just like I never was and never will be by my "parents".

Sour-rose · Answer

You know how many adults I've seen with those eyes of Murder, depression, or regret?
Hell, I seen one walk past me out of a theater without a word as her kids left peanut shells all over the fukin aisle of seats!

So yeah, some parents DO NOT deserve one. Probably because they THINK they ready to shower that kid with love but turns out they wasn't ready at all.

DizzyDesii · Answer

What if its a psycho killer kid? I mean maybe he's psycho because he lacked a good parent. But he's psycho just out of being born pure evil, then he deserves to be enrolled in a nuthouse. As for parents, I dont think they deserve anything unless they have a good heart, good intentions or worked for it.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Every child deserves a good parent! Most of my childhood I was raised by other people in our household, my parents had little to do with raising me. My parents never deserved children, we were just trophies to bring out to display their achievements.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Oh wow! Good, only one “girl” disagreed with the question, well that shows you: 1) who the troll is, and,  2) That I haven’t lost ALL faith in humanity yet!!

Reddie · Answer

Every child deserves a parent or guardian/role model. No matter how good or bad the kid is, he or she has a life ahead of them and has every right as everyone else in the world, they deserve the chance at living it, but only if the parent, guardian or role model is a decent respectful, loving, empathetic person with a loving heart and they actually want to be a part of the child's future and lead them in the right directions

SmokyOne · Answer

Strongly agree.

Seems like the parents who believe they're failures at being parents tend to honestly be the best and on the flipside the ones that act superior are the ones that were just completely unavailable

bbear07 · Answer

oh my word... i picked the wrong one lol. definitely agree

whereismyjohnny · Answer

I strongly agree.  Not everyone should/deserves to be a parent.

Tina19 · Answer

I read it somewhere and I so agree with this and something very applicable on my parents

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Strongly agree.. So sad that parents have kids and they abuse them or don't pay attention to them

Jltakk · Answer

100 percent correct. There needs to be a license for parenting.

melanieeeB · Answer

Definitely, not every person is a good parent.

Guardian45 · Answer

Not every parent should have a child.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Not every parent wants a kid

Cherry234 · Answer

Strongly agree

NathanDavis · Answer

yep...

dorksided1 · Answer

Strongly Agree

douride2 · Answer

I agree with this.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I voted A

Crankor · Answer

Makes sense

melisaaa · Answer

i agree

llorando · Answer

Strongly Agree.

xJayleenx · Answer

I strongly agree

flirtatiousgirl · Answer

Voted a

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