What would happen if a person you consider to be a friend for years was dishonest to you?

[Anonymous]

one time? Would you ignore her and move on or speak to her? Lets say you knew each other since high school as you both were classmates back then, now you both are in your late 40`s. When you both were in high school you both were good frerinds and you both hang out together with other classmates, then you both graduated each one took different paths but then ran into each other again later in years and from time to time you did hang out and socialize, you also know this ladys sister as she also was your close classmate at high school and also later in years. You also hang out with the lady sister as well from tiem to time.

When you were in your late 30 or early 40`s you both hang out from time to time as you both consier friends to each other. You even went to this ladys husband mass when he died. Then you aslo went to the mass when these ladies dad died in order to support both of them ( both sisters), you also knew these sisters `s other sister and mom since high school.

Anyway last weekend it was the 50 bday of one of these sisters. She invited a group of classmates that she did not hang out in the past, just recently like 4 years ago she ran into each other again at one high school reunion. After this reunion 4 years ago, the bday lady dissapear we (including me) never heard from her again , she never attended planned get togethers with a group of classmates ), her sister was like the only more visible and the sister never watned to talk about where her sister was or if she was ok., the sister only responded, she was fine period.

But then all of a sudden she resurface again, it was her birthday and she invited a few classmates she really did not have that much close contact with after the reunion. I mean we all knew each other sure but I was more of a friend than these other classmates and the

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bday lady did not invite me to her birthday, not even her own sister took me to account for that birthday. But the odd thing was that this bday sister did invite 3 female classmates (also friends) taht her did not hang out much in the recent years that in the past 3 years we (including me) manage to get together often at some bars or at the house of anotehr female friend (a classmate). The bday lady invited those 3 ladies taht I hanged out more in the recent years but she did not take me into

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account, not even the sister invited me. Also the lady did not invite other 2 female classmates that also hanged out more with the 3 ladies who were invited, one of the ones not invited is the friend who alwyas had nicely opened her house for us to hang out and mingle. Im a bit surprise why these sisters did not invited me or the other ones but they did invited 3 ladies who they hardly hang out with, i hang out more with the ones who were invited than the sisters

[20yearsolder]

I would be done with them, I'm not going to focus my energy on someone that lies to me

[Anonymous]

Id let it go if it was just one time. But id also let the person how much it bothered me.