How many times a week do you text your online friend?

[Anonymous]

And if you do it daily, how many times a day?

[ShadowMonarch]

On weekdays we talk briefly but in weekends we talk for 2 or 3 hours

[Asker]

Oh okay, by briefly, you mean like 1 or 2 texts a day? So you technically talk eveyrday to your online friend?

I was just curious because I'm wondering what would be considered too much.

[ShadowMonarch]

20 to 30 mins or so
To be honest I am a very close person and I don't like meetups or gatherings as I have social anxiety...
2 years ago I would even tremble just sending a text and I was very bad at that too.. people misunderstood my behavior and thought of me as an arrogant person... but someone helped me and I still talk to them to this day

[ShadowMonarch]

The point is that there is nothing like too much in this situation as it's up to you

[Asker]

Yeah I understand! I made an online friend like 7 months ago. We have some common interests and we usually talk almost everyday. But I hope that my friend doesn't think I'm clingy or needy. I've been trying to reduce the amount of texts to make sure that the person doesn't get tired of me.

But recently, that person checked up on me to see if I was doing alright (because I wasn't texting as much as usual).

[ShadowMonarch]

If you have doubts like these just ask them... I have always did that and it all turns out fine...
The thing is that short term conflict is better than long term conflict

[Ms_Facesitter]

Almost every day.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Almost every day