I arranged to go to exhibit with friend A who I assume is now a friend but friend B later asked me to go movie with her? what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Friend B is a girl I’ve been friends with for a very long time and always enjoy spending time with her.

Friend A I met off an online dating site. After a few dates, it just felt like friendship and she said she thinks she just sees me as a friend. So I just told her I’d find it too difficult just being friends with her as I find her attractive and we agreed to leave it there but said to her she can contact me if she has a change of heart in future. Few months later she started interacting with me on instagram and we arranged to meet. Still felt like friendship so I just assume we’re just friends now.

If friend A asked first, you should prioritise friend A and carry on plans with her

Cancel or postpone plans with friend A - you’ve known friend B longer and prefer spending time with her

See if you can combine plans and invite both friends A and B to the exhibit and cinema

[Flower7]

Choose friend B. It doesn’t seem like “friend” A even likes you.

[Asker]

She’s friends with me though?

[Flower7]

Only after she rejected you.

[Asker]

And? Does that make someone any less of a friend?

[Flower7]

Yeah, she’s probably trying to hang out with you because of feeling guilty.

[Asker]

Or maybe she does actually enjoy my company?

[Guy13]

Go with the girl and the guy friend will get over it.