Am I the bad person?

[Anonymous]

Last week I made a comment about a family member who was on her third baby and the father is in jail. I’ll admit I was being judgmental. My family jumped to the girls defense and berated me for talking crap about the girl. One ain’t in particular got kind of aggressive with me. It was weird because she’s the biggest gossipper. Recently she even gossiped that my cousin (her niece) was sleeping around. Last night I was drunk and in my feelings so I told my cousin what my aunt said about her. Now everyone is pissed at me and my mom told me I’m bitter and not a good person for starting drama. I feel terrible. Should I?

[RuthlessAggression]

Judgment is a direct cause of jealousy. It sounds like you may be a little jealous that she's having another kid. I don't know you so I don't know the situation but, I'm telling you that JUDGMENT is in direct Correlation with the idea of jealousy.

Don't shoot the messenger

And if I'm wrong, don't start yelling at me. I'm telling you what I know and what I don't know

[Asker]

Definitely not jealous. I’d admit if I was lol

[RuthlessAggression]

I can almost guarantee you, you are

[Waldoe]

probably... be more "diplomatic"