Cutting my toxic and dysfunctional mother off?

[Anonymous]

Yes I finally cut my mother off who is abusive and toxic towards me.. she has wished death on me and treats me like shyt. I’m afraid if she doesn’t stay away from me I will hurt her. We both live with my grandma and she keeps pushing my button. I’ve asked my grandma to tell her to leave me alone and stay away from my kids until we move in 2 months. She refuses to leave me alone and it’s to the point I will hurt her if she doesn’t stay away from me. My spouse won’t be meeting my family, my family won’t be attending my wedding, and I already agreed if something happens to my family i won’t be attending their funeral services.

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+1 y

There is no rekindling with my mother … so please don’t ask me anything about rekindling anything with her. She’s cut off indefinitely and I don’t want anything to do with her.

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+1 y

Number one I’ve been married before , don’t do tats or any of that.. my mother had bad experiences with men she never got over and takes her anger out on me or whatever happened in her past. I’m college educated and have my own business.. I’m the only college educated one out my family.. my mother needs professional help ASAP.. clearly she’s not mentally well

[Anonymous]

I understand. Google narcissistic mother's and their daughters. Sounds like yours is one. My advice get out of Grandma's house and on your own. Cut ties for good. Narcissistic people get worse as they age, i should know. They Lie, Deny and Blame you for everything!! their deeply jealous and I. Rage of any happiness. I'd Stat away forever. I recently cut ties with the woman who birthed me. She's no mother, but an abuser.

[Asker]

She’s indeed a narcissistic - I’m moving out this summer , but avoid her for my own sanity she creates drama daily

[Asker]

There are no ties with me and my mother I don’t want anything to do with her

[Asker]

There is no pleasing her

[FictionalCharacter]

If you’re living with your grandma and mom, how can you afford a wedding?

[SeekingVirginWife]

Maybe she hates you because you did not save your virginity for marriage, got tattoos and did drugs, never listened to her good advice of becoming a good daughter and became an huge embarrassment to the family's honor.

Not trying to offend but Millennials are the worst generation in family values.

[Asker]

She’s hates me because she has bad experiences with men me is lesbian.. she is a miserable hag

[Asker]

I’ve been married before..! stop judging people

[Asker]

My mother hates men and clearly had bad experiences with men she never got over

[Asker]

I’m college educated and have my own business.. you sound like a prick and sore loser