Cutting off my toxic and abusive mother?

[Anonymous]

It seems like the relationship with my mother will never get better as there's so much resentment, hate, and jealousy towards me. My mother told me she hated me tonight and this isn't the first time.. it's like the 7th or 8th time... it's the constant belittling and tearing me down... I feel nothing for her mentally or emotionally.. the constant emotional abuse has led me here. I want nothing to do with her and she doesn't get it. Even when I distance myself she finds a way to wiggle herself in my life instead of moving on and getting therapy..

[strateguy632]

Tell yourself "i have thick skin" and ignore her harsh words between the rest of stuff. Pretend it is a job with a coworker.

[Jmmmfi4]

I went through life long emotional abuse from my father every single day

Don't tolerate it from anyone

[slatyb]

You are an adult. Don't let her back in.

[ChangeMefot]

Cut her off