Is it a big deal I threw a phone at my friend whilst drunk during argument?

[anonbrunette99]

apparently I’m crazy and have a problem because it happened back in October too whilst partying with a curling iron (switched off tho) but it’s like there’s probably 5-6 more people that would say I’m calm, nice and fun to party with it just so happens that whilst intoxicated those two pissed me off

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PS her response was strangling me and hitting punching me and punching me to the floor then she is the one telling me to stay away from her and her sister is threatening me with violence. Since when did humans become so crazy.

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

Drama. I have known far more alcoholics then I ever wish to know. You got a problem. Stop getting drunk and stop the drama.
Is the calm fun you still there when drunk? Seems not.

Your response right now in your head is "I don't have a problem" and you are blaming others. Its always other people's fault.
Ask yourself this. You labeled the person "your friend" and then she is punching you and telling you to stay away from her. Is that a problem?
You cannot handle alcohol. You don't need to handle alcohol to be fun or cool. So I strongly suggest you just don't even touch alcohol at all.

[anonbrunette99]

How do I have a problem? Because it’s happened? Most of the time I am calm and fun and outgoing whilst drunk me getting angry only happens if someone is arguing with me

[anonbrunette99]

And yeah I think the correct words are ex friend

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

So if you change so drastically when drunk then don't drink. If its knowingly going to be a Jeckel/ Hide thing don't drink the potion.

[Mark987]

My honest advice to you ( speaking from experience). I was a bad drunk for the longest time ( hard alcohol). I stopped drinking hard alcohol unless it's something weak like a Pina Colada etc. You're still young try sticking with low % alcohol.. and take small steps

[anonbrunette99]

Honestly I’ve partied a lot and it’s usually been fine and easy sailing it’s only happened 3 times there’s tens of times it’s been absolutely fine and I’ve been even drunker than that. So I think it’s just not to get into arguments whilst under the influence I didn’t want to hurt her I was just mad and wanted to throw something

[Mark987]

3 times out of how many times though? Just know your limit and if you have a problem reaching that... then rethink everything

[whereismyjohnny]

You both were in the wrong.

Intoxicated or not, I think you shouldn't throw things at people.

[anonbrunette99]

No I know I shouldn’t have but I have been kicked and hit even spat on by drunk girls arguing with me and I’ve never hit them back cause they are drunk and likely won’t remember / will feel bad but ig I’m different and yes I feel bad for what I did but I did apologise she was sober and reacted that way. It is what it is

[jshm2]

Yep - you could serve around 2-4 months in prison on common assault.

Also, grow the fuck up, and don't drink until drunk if this is the sort of drunk that you become.

[anonbrunette99]

It only happened 3 times in my life out of about 50-60 partying experiences that’s not a huge deal

[jahaims]

Yes it is a big deal. You are the crazy one for thinking it was wrong for someone to hit you after you assaulted them.

[anonbrunette99]

Nah if someone throws something you throw it back hit then back harder what’s the need in pushing people to the floor and strangling them

[jahaims]

Don't assault people if you don't want to face the consequences.

[TallAnon]

Obviously her response was way out of line. But honestly, to a lesser degree, so were you. Don't throw stuff at people.

[anonbrunette99]

I guess cause I taken it too far she had to take it further, someone throws something at me i throw it back harder. Apparently that makes me weak. Not even. Just don’t agree with physically attacking people I threw it because I was angry and wanted to throw something I didn’t intend to harm her. But your right. Maybe I should be glad the friendship for now is gone

[TallAnon]

What you did would be assault, under the law. What she did would be battery. Both are illegal.

[anonbrunette99]

You think the cops would really come out and take me to jail over throwing a cell phone at my friend in McDonald’s whilst drunk? I’m certain they would view it as a waste

[TallAnon]

They wouldn't need to, if it was on tape, she could sue you. All that to say, it's a crime for a reason; You shouldn't do it.

[Anonymous]

She sounds pretty nuts! Any chance she's just jealous of the attention you get from dudes? That tends to really set some girls OFF!

[anonbrunette99]

Honestly it seems there was more anger in her trying to beat me up than just me chucking a celly at her in the heat on the moment so who knows !!

[Opinion Owner]

I think your rack drove her crazy with envy.

[Fuentes]

The drinks aren't for you then better lay off it before someone seriously hurts you or kills you

[MrOxford]

You both sound like you can’t handle your drink. Being angry is no excuse for throwing something at someone.

[Dave38nrd]

It depents how hard you trow