Is it weird to be a childless Latina in my 30's?

[Anonymous]

I started wanting kids in my late 20's. I didn't want to repeat the tradition of having kids as soon as I'm done with HS (it's not 1970's anymore) nor be another poor mother popping kids like crazy. Why would I need 4-5 kids? One would be enough.

I'm a childless Latina in my 30's. I have to admit certain members in my family are wondering when I'm going to have a child.

[caitycat21]

Who cares if it’s weird. Social norms are bullshit, just because having children is what the majority do at your age doesn’t mean it’s going to actually bring happiness and fulfill your life

[Asker]

Though now I would like one child at least.

[Anonymous]

no. if u have nephews and neices, that just makes you the hot rich aunt.

[Asker]

Nope but I have 7 year-old Godson.

[joeldalton]

your clock is ticking, you can't fight biology.

[Asker]

I know. I'm on the process of having that solved. I'm in a relationship for 6 months and our goals is to have a family. I'm going to have a child either through him or through in-vitro.

[joeldalton]

in vitro or a boyfriend knocking you up is a bad idea. A child needs a father and mother in a stable marriage.

[Asker]

Actually we're dating with intention. We're waiting till marriage. From the beginning I told him I never do cohabitation nor have kids before marriage. That's the plan. As first option I want a child in a marriage.
The in-vitro fertilization would be my 2nd option, my last resort.

[Jackson619]

Nope I'm like that too it's a turn on

[Jackson619]

How do I look

[Anonymous]

No, not at all.