I'm already 25 and still have no urges to reproduce... weird?

[Anonymous]

Several of my family members and others say ''give it 3-4 years and you'll be singing a different tune'' change suddenly''.

Is that true? I still have no urges for crying brats. I enjoy my job position as the new supervisor, playing some video games and chess, doing to a couple parties, friends, family reunions and still studying for my Master's.

Is it weird that I still have no desires nor urges towards kids at the age of 25?

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+1 y

I've been invited to 3 baby showers and felt indifferent towards them. I still felt no urges whatsoever for kids.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Not wanting to reproduce does not go away.


Baby crazy lunatics will NEVER stop trying to convince you to have a baby or that having a baby is the greatest thing ever.


They can’t accept that some of us can be happy without keeping cum as a pet.

[Sour-rose]

No. I'm now 27 and still feel no need to have any of dem spawns of satan. they might say you're wasting your biological clock but if you don't wanna, you don't gotta. Simple as dat <3

[Asker]

Exactly. Same as we don't eat if we're not hungry; I won't get pregnant if I have no desires of a kid.

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s true is by age 35 women start to have challenges with pregnancy and that only increases as you age. So in a few years you may feel more urgency as you get older. But sounds like rn your life is full as is

[Asker]

This is what I'm kind of worried. What if by the time I have urges towards kids, I'm in my 30's by then? This means I would have to find a man that will propose at a quicker pace, one that wants marriage in less than 2 years. It'll be harder by then.
The problem is I have no urges for kids now. I'm indifferent towards babies.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then why not start the process towards finding a long term relationship now. Even if the guy isn’t in a rush to have kids you can start to build a bond with him

[slatyb]

Not weird. You aren’t alone. Maybe you will decide you want children, maybe not. There are many happy childless people.

[EllaNella]

haha same
there are so many reasons not to have children in this world so i'm not going to cry about my "motherly instincts" not kicking in

[Anonymous]

i don't think it really matters. you do what you want to do (or not want to do). right now is not the best time to have a child anyways, with inflation and a risk of a recession.

[Opinion Owner]

also don't believe the "its hard to have kids after age 35" bullshit. total myth. fuck, even 25 year olds sometimes have a hard time getting pregnant. it really just depends on the woman's health.

[Anonymous]

No, Its not weird. Its just what you don't want right now.